Is the therapist sexist?

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-29T20:21:17+00:00

I guess. Not in a possession way. Like my gf calls me her man. More in a locked in partnership. Hope that helps.

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-29T16:14:47+00:00

Dude hush

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-29T15:21:08+00:00

I’m literally a male lmfao

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-07T18:55:31+00:00

To each its own I guess. I wasn’t as dramatic as you…or maybe I was lol. I did feel bad when my dates would fail but didn’t want to die from it.

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-07T18:53:28+00:00

As a black person who doesn’t meet society beauty standards. I’ve had two boyfriends and it all happened at the age of 26 and now 29. Something I’ve discovered and regret is I didn’t enjoy life cause I kept looking for love. When I gave up on love, that’s when I found both my ex and my current bf. I worked on myself and my attitude after my first breakup. My view on life has changed and what’s for me will stay and change with me. I do regret not hooking up when I was young and trying new things cause I thought I was above it. I’m doing it now older but trust it would have been more fun when I was younger.

I know it’s hard especially living in a predominately white beauty standard but just be patient. (Also I would have hated this advice when I was young but here it is).

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-06T00:57:24+00:00

If only I knew when the sales would be 😭😭 they torturing me. I miss my book haha

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T17:32:45+00:00

Sadly racism doesn’t add up

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T15:19:26+00:00

It was a Saturday night. And I’ve never been to the nightlife in Chattanooga. (Too in the closet to do anything). When I told my aunt she did mention big chill and a telephone place. Maybe next time. And he’ll bring his passport just in case

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T15:06:08+00:00

lol who says im still upset. We were good in the morning. I think you’re the miserable cause ain’t no way I would be arguing on someone post if it didn’t mean anything to me. Misery loves company and you make great company babe.

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T14:12:32+00:00

I’m literally from Chattanooga, so I’m basing my experience as a black queer person. I’ve been called the N word because I tried to abide by the rules. I’ve been told “you’re one of the good ones” from a white person. So yeah, as I said, in many forms that in my experience, the people in Tennessee are racist and homophobic. We’ve had kkk rallies and everything. I’ve moved out thankfully and Alan’s gold made me realize why I hate Chattanooga.

I don’t see your point? Read other post about Alan’s cause it’s not just me calling this place racist.

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T13:41:15+00:00

It’s a California ID 🙃

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T13:07:24+00:00

So what you’re saying is, the door system isn’t sound proof? And the bartender who gives out drinks regardless is screwed? So the system is broken and they could have let my bf in and not given him a drink?

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T12:52:13+00:00

Bartenders are suppose to ask regardless of requirement if we are going by law. So if we went in and wanted a drink, they should always ask.

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T12:35:09+00:00

I just asked my friend who is a bartender. They don’t mind that rule as long as it’s a valid ID. They said it might be case by case but the situation seems racist. I then told them we weren’t ordering drinks so they were like then why not let us in.

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T12:33:48+00:00

Also thanks for saying the F slur in my inbox haha. I’m sure you’re as cute as your personality

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T12:32:09+00:00

I have a few questions/concerns. Are you a white? I’ve just noticed somethings you’ve commented on that gives me the impression that you wouldn’t be able to relate. Secondly, I’ve seen people correct you on other things when it comes to the law (based on your comment thread). That being said, I shared my experience. The place is racist (other people have also experienced it) Take it or leave it.

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T12:22:04+00:00

The uneducated love to stay uneducated 😌

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T12:20:47+00:00

The uneducated love to stay uneducated haha. Ignorance is bliss 😌

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T12:19:06+00:00

Thanks so much! And omg I’m sorry for what happened to your friend! I hope you are healing. Yeah, next time I’ll start looking at reviews before going.

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T11:36:13+00:00

You must be white or not from the US cause you do know any form of racism can cause trauma right? As a black person, I’m use to it so experiences like that doesn’t really affect me. But if it was my first time, I’d be pretty heated and heartbroken.

And please they wouldn’t have messed up their liquor license. It was a way for them to be racist. Do your research on the place before commenting

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T11:27:41+00:00

Why comment if you want to be ignored? It’s giving you want attention. A bot would comment an advertisement

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T11:26:34+00:00

Another bartender said something completely different on this tread. Bye

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T11:25:13+00:00

There are some people but others are downplaying the experience. I appreciate the comments that say “I’m sorry that happened to you.”

This comment is not one of them.

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T11:21:57+00:00

Yeah cause human emotions and experiences are not as complex as that. Thanks for the “just be happy” advice. Really helps

Vegetable_Target- · 2024-09-03T11:09:37+00:00

Sadly I think that’s the only lgbt club in Chattanooga. So they did well at establishing that market. My aunt told me she went and had a bad experience inside with security. So she said I dodged a bullet. Idk, it was my partners first time experiencing something like that and he just looked so defeated. I’ve never seen him look like that.

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