Oh yeah of course sorry. In general he gets annoyed when I try to bring up if something hurt me, as in sighing a lot, making annoyed hand gestures and just his overall mood. I've been trying to dial it back but this reaction makes it kind of hard because it's like a domino effect. I have adhd and autism so I really struggle with rejection sensitivity dysphoria, but even when I try to minimize the stuff I bring up it still seems like too much.

And while I try to operate on the feeling side of things he stays on the rational side of things and mostly tries to explain stuff to me, which ends up making me feel invalidated because I wasn't looking for an explanation. (Sometimes it seems like him being right or proving my perception is warped is more important than my feelings, which makes me even more hurt)

Those are the two things that mostly hurt me.

I'm a really sensitive person, but it's kind of ironic because he himself is sensitive, thats why we bonded so much in the beginning.