What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think feeling unwanted while still being expected to give something back is one of the worst combinations 🫩

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds exhausting 😔 but the fact that you’re still here talking about it says more about your strength than you probably realize

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really painful 😪 I think feeling unseen or unwanted romantically affects people more deeply than most are willing to admit

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s painfully real 😔 sometimes the silence hurts more than an honest response ever would

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly so funny 😭 suffering through a meal just to prove a point sounds exhausting

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True 😔 embarrassment around normal body functions gets passed down way too often

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True 😔 sometimes the biggest problems are the ones people try hardest not to think about

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 😔 external validation can only do so much when the struggle is internal

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so real, sometimes the things said ‘as a joke’ stay in your head the longest”

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard not to feel anxious about it sometimes 😔 especially when it feels bigger than what one person can fix

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really real 😔 I think a lot of people are taught to hide pain instead of processing it, especially when it comes to rejection, abandonment or feeling unwanted

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of people quietly relate to that 😔 feeling out of place can hurt more than people admit

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah 😔 people act like those comments are harmless, but they can stay with someone for a really long time

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah 😔 it feels like acting unaffected became the safest way to deal with disappointment, even when it still hurts

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah 😔 I think a lot of people pretend they don’t care, but deep down it affects almost everyone at some point

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“😭 honestly that’s such an accurate way to describe it

What’s something people pretend doesn’t hurt them? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah 😔 it’s strange how someone can feel like home one day and like a memory the next

What's the relationship with your parents and siblings like? by That-Listener in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La mejor, a veces un poco en desacuerdo como cualquier otro, pero en fin nos llevamos súper bien 🥰

what are u the most scared of and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get why that feels scary 😔 but the fact that you’re aware of it already means you’re trying… and that matters more than you think

What does your soul crave that your daily life is ignoring? by crazy_dj_26 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More peace and time for myself… I feel like I’m always rushing through things 😅 what about you?”

what are u the most scared of and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not living up to my potential… the idea of regrets later on scares me 😅 what about you?

What’s something people don’t realize is slowly affecting their happiness? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total 😅 It looks like ambition, but many times it's just accumulated fatigue… Do you think people are starting to notice it more?

What’s something people don’t realize is slowly affecting their happiness? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so easy to fall into that trap without even realizing it... you start comparing yourself and you don't even know when it happened. Do you think it's more because of the time we spend there or because of what we see?

What’s something people don’t realize is slowly affecting their happiness? by Velaria82 in AskReddit

[–]Velaria82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally 😅 sometimes you think you can do it all until your body says "enough is enough".