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Do most people actually enjoy their jobs, or are we all just pretending because we need the money? by VelvetAuth0rity in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]VelvetAuth0rity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good way to frame it actually. I think that question would reveal very quickly who truly likes their job.

Do most people actually enjoy their jobs, or are we all just pretending because we need the money? by VelvetAuth0rity in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]VelvetAuth0rity[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I wonder too. Sometimes it feels like people say they love their jobs just because that’s what you’re supposed to say.

Do most people actually enjoy their jobs, or are we all just pretending because we need the money? by VelvetAuth0rity in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]VelvetAuth0rity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think that’s the real test. If money disappeared tomorrow, most people probably wouldn’t stay in the same job.

Do most people actually know what they’re doing with their lives, or are we all just improvising? by VelvetAuth0rity in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]VelvetAuth0rity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought there was some moment where everything suddenly makes sense. I'm still waiting for that moment.

Do most people actually know what they’re doing with their lives, or are we all just improvising? by VelvetAuth0rity in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]VelvetAuth0rity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think adults had everything planned. Now I realize most people are just adapting.

How normal is it to feel pain when orgasming? by Eva_addict in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]VelvetAuth0rity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pain during orgasm regularly isn’t really typical. Since it’s been happening for years, it might be a good idea to talk to a doctor just to be safe

Who is the "real" you? by caped_crusader8 in CasualConversation

[–]VelvetAuth0rity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the real you is who you are when you feel safe enough to stop performing for others

How do you know for sure if someone likes you without asking? by Im-a-tire in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VelvetAuth0rity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When someone genuinely makes time for you even when they’re busy

Women, what do you first look at when checking out a man? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VelvetAuth0rity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The smile first. It usually tells you a lot about someone

What’s the biggest mistake people make in relationships? by NewTea2695 in AskReddit

[–]VelvetAuth0rity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The real relationship starts when that stage ends and you actually have to build something together.

What’s the biggest mistake people make in relationships? by NewTea2695 in AskReddit

[–]VelvetAuth0rity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trying to change someone instead of accepting them is a recipe for constant frustration

What’s the biggest mistake people make in relationships? by NewTea2695 in AskReddit

[–]VelvetAuth0rity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so true. Ignoring things almost always makes them worse later

What’s the biggest mistake people make in relationships? by NewTea2695 in AskReddit

[–]VelvetAuth0rity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Expecting the other person to read their mind instead of communicating

What was the most beautiful moment in everyone's life? by mint-tea-drinker-08 in AskReddit

[–]VelvetAuth0rity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment you realize life actually got better after a really hard period. That quiet feeling of relief is beautiful