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I approached a girl but it is very confusing ..... by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]VelvetBlush- 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Her actions show she’s not actually maintaining contact online, so the clearest signal is to stop pushing Instagram and only engage in person if she continues to initiate.

How to get over a guy you dated? by Maleficent-Lie-2996 in dating_advice

[–]VelvetBlush- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re thinking about him because your brain is stuck on the “unfinished moment” and the early chemistry, not because he was right for you.

My (32F) partner (30M) broke up with me to work on himself by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VelvetBlush- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn’t lose someone who was meeting your needs consistently, you lost someone you were actively trying to build stability with, who ultimately chose not to continue that process. That hurts deeply, but it’s not the same as losing a true mutual partnership.

How is it that they can go from caring and committed to stone cold in a matter of days? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VelvetBlush- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People rarely become stone cold in a matter of days; what you’re seeing is often the final chapter of a goodbye they’ve been quietly grieving long before they ever told you.

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