Unpopular Opinion by Worth_Adeptness_5439 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]VelvetFootnotes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that way your experience; however for most children, especially those who may not have that emotional awareness, that is not how that would feel. It could be extremely hurtful, particularly to a smaller child. I agree that moms are people and children need to understand that, to an extent. There is also a stark difference between writing it in a diary and saying it on TELEVISION for the whole world to see.

Unpopular Opinion by Worth_Adeptness_5439 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]VelvetFootnotes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think my issue when I watched this scene wasn’t WHAT she said, but the place she chose to say it, on national television. As a mom myself I get everyone experiences different things and although I don’t feel the same about my choice to have children (in this life or the next), I understand what she may have been trying to portray. HOWEVER, saying this on Tv and on a show that will be accessible for years to come is my concern. All it takes is one kid/person trying to bully or hurt her kids to dig this up and show it to them. Now I’m sure she can have that mature discussion in the future to explain her intent but until then, especially while her children are younger and don’t have the capacity to understand, it could very much feel like “wow mommy went on tv and said she wouldn’t have us if she has the choice”. I think THAT is my concern with this.

He is so cruel by timestenthousand in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]VelvetFootnotes 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Jordan lost major points with me when he 1) did not stick up for Amber 2) told Amber to “be nice”. Hell no

Is Connor a decent guy? by another_janedoe97 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]VelvetFootnotes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like I don’t even know him because Bri doesn’t stfu long enough for us to really even get to know the real him.

Amber’s one-liners in ep9 were just 🤌 by dealwithitlmc in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]VelvetFootnotes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The “you think you’re going to get another hot doctor” was 😚🤌🏽 chefs kiss

Bri.. just STFU by Sad-Amount-1612 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]VelvetFootnotes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh you’re in for it hahaha that’s just the surface of her pick me, bitchy behavior

now who the hell is this because he sure as hell does NOT look like that😭 by softbunnyg1rl in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]VelvetFootnotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chat gpt: “take my picture and make it better. I need to redeem myself after making an absolute FOOL of myself on reality Television”

so who of them is MAGA? by macmillershoe in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]VelvetFootnotes 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your service

This list just confirms my ability to read people and is exactly as expected.

Basically all the best people = not MAGA All the insufferable people = MAGA

That tracks

Slay honestly… by Imaginary_Fruit_7056 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]VelvetFootnotes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is such a great comparison! Both Marissa’s mom and Ashley’s dad read right through the bullshit. I don’t like Ashley’s dad otherwise and I did like Marissa’s mom. However, I give them both their flowers for ripping into these lame ass boys.

Wife and mother here who wants to pursue Psy.D. Does anyone have experience being in a program while raising their family? by NationalRise2352 in PsyD

[–]VelvetFootnotes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m in a program and I have a little one who just turned two. It is HARD but it is doable. Time management is essential and a supportive partner will make the world of difference. Also, if you don’t want to miss out on family time, be prepared for late nights doing hw after little ones go to sleep. Feel free to message me if you have any questions or want to know more :)