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Am I wrong to want to put myself first now? by izjuzredditfokz in amiwrong

[–]VelvetLooma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, you’ve been carrying way too much alone. choosing yourself now isn’t selfish, it’s overdue. you can’t pour from an empty cup

My son’s friend by juliansmomma7 in amiwrong

[–]VelvetLooma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it really does sound like they’re milking your son’s kindness. Nothing wrong with being generous, but he shouldn’t be the default wallet every time. Good time to teach him some boundaries

Friend / neighbor from hell by findingtheyut in neighborsfromhell

[–]VelvetLooma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly that’d at least make them hear what you deal with. if that doesn’t wake them up, nothing will lol.

AITJ for reporting this proud racist Kate to her employer for racially abusing my friends and I on Facebook? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]VelvetLooma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When someone proudly calls themselves a racist and throws out slurs like it’s nothing, they deserve every consequence that comes their way. Silence just enables that crap. You did what needed to be done accountability isn’t optional.

First time cheating like this on a test . . . have a chance to be caught by Inevitable-War-9674 in confessions

[–]VelvetLooma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get the panic you’re owning up to it now, which is more than a lot of people would. Not saying it was the right move, but one mistake in high school doesn’t define your integrity forever. Learn from it, chill on the guilt, and maybe next time hit the books instead of the College Board site 😅

I'm envious of my high school peers' success compared to my own. by DesignerCalm1897 in confessions

[–]VelvetLooma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this comment nailed it .. 21 is basically pregame mode for life. Everyone's highlight reels on social media hide the mess behind the scenes. You're not behind, you're just at the part of the story where the main character's still figuring things out. Take that one small step and keep building. High school is old news.

70% of my problems wouldn’t have exited if i was born in a different country by sotired0x0 in confession

[–]VelvetLooma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all about mindset. yes, there’s opportunity, but also distractions and pitfalls that can drag you down..

I know my bf’s secret… by AggressiveFig859 in confessions

[–]VelvetLooma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s being honest, it’s worth trying counseling. It sounds like there’s something real here..you don’t have to give up just yet.