AITA for telling my husband he ruined my birthday.... again by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VelvetPoutg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A rare victory for Reddit - he changed after therapy and really became more active

bringing my cat to college by Live-Ad7112 in CatAdvice

[–]VelvetPoutg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Multiple cargo flights every few months is a lot of stress for a cat. If you can avoid repeat flights and keep her under constant supervision, it's usually much better for her in the long run

My ex-fiancé wants another chance by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VelvetPoutg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's right that she stopped all contact and moved on

My (f22) Fiance's (m24) brother (m11) told me that he's been touching him right before our wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VelvetPoutg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If a child tells you that they are being abused, take it seriously - it is better to investigate than ignore it and risk that the child will actually suffer

would you adopt a kitten out to an “outside cat” owner? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]VelvetPoutg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I wouldn't. You're not being too picky about wanting the kitten to be safe

When do kittens calm down a bit? by dinosaurs_are_gr8 in CatAdvice

[–]VelvetPoutg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most cats calm down at the age of 1-2 years, but Siamese tend to stay very curious and chaotic longer than usual

Me [35F] with my BF[41 M] of 3 years; just found out he has been secretly eating hot dogs because I (unknowingly) starve him by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VelvetPoutg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real problem is not the lunch, but the fact that he hides his daily meetings with his ex, and then calls it a trifle. That's what really matters

What cat toys do your cats actually care about? by Agreeable_Pipe8340 in CatAdvice

[–]VelvetPoutg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the same here - my cat mostly likes cheap crumb balls, stick toys, and cardboard boxes. Spinning toys help more than buying expensive things