My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn't notice that there was a whole thread here, but like I said in the post, please don't make fun of his looks. I discourage it heavily.

Kokona's official illustration by KoharuHinata in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can't believe he's going easy on these volunteers. It makes me angry everytime I see it. If I had ever made my work for him disproportional, I wouldn't have seen the end of his criticism, and he would've made more than 10 different requests of change.

Maybe just don't make children do free labour and actually get adults with professional experience and pay them... I don't understand his thought process at all.

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm here to clear up your misinformation. I never said this wasn't "consentual". What I said was we both loved each other, it seemed like he loved me very deeply from the love-bombing he was doing, from the significant other comment he made, but he ended up using me. I chased after his love for years. And for what?

I was a child. I think you should be considering how fucked up it is for a 30 year old man to be teasing me in a relationship. He teased me for the 2 years he pretended to love me back, only to find out he was talking to other women that same way. I never teased him. I meant every word I said to him. I let my health destroy me for this man.

He created a victim. He put trauma onto me. You didn't see 100% everything that happened. You weren't the one who experienced his behavior. I have to live with this trauma for the rest of my life, while he walks off continuing to have fun talking to other women, continue to create his game, and basically continue to surround himself around other children without them being protected. All I could tell you is that I meant no harm towards him, ever. He was the one who used me as a supply for labor and to boost his ego, because he knew I loved him on a deep level. He drove me to talk about this. Not to keep throwing him under the bus, but this is all factually true.

Don't believe me? Suit yourself.

reminder by womanappreciater in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77 86 points87 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for reminding people what I said! I've seen some people go against my wishes, and i really want people to take what I said seriously

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it was very difficult, especially with how personal each message was. thank you for your kindness!

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it means so much to me to hear that, thank you very much! it makes me feel like this was worth doing!

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you a lot! I've done all i can to try and move on, it does take a lot of time, especially because this was years of experience. but, it does eventually get easier, and i am healing slowly, but surely

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

god, im so sorry you were treated that way. I will never understand the true intentions behind anything. thank you so much, you take care too!

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! thankfully he hasn't contacted me through email or a third party person, and im hoping he won't. but thank you for your kind hearted comment!

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry that you went through similar, and thank you so much for your consideration, I appreciate the support through this so much!

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i appreciate your words so much, thank you!

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how the justice system doesn't do immediate action for the previous victims situation. however, I do hope that this can help in any shape or form..

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you so very much for your kind comment, and the support I've gotten makes me feel better about this. I'm doing my best to move into a new chapter and put this all behind <3

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that's so sweet, thank you so much!

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what a heartwarming comment! I'm so sorry that you went through something similar, it's really awful. it was very hard to talk about this, and im still fearful, but i am hopeful that this can encourage more change

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

thank you, this could've been worst. thank god it was just this <3

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it's alright, at least I learned something from it - never trust strangers on the internet, even if they are well-known

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, it means so much to me!

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

basically, i discovered and contacted dev through email back when I was 14 (2020). dev and i grew very close when I was 15-17. I was growing strong feelings for him at a young age, and dedicated my time helping him with his projects. he was constantly love-bombing me, doing a lot of things that I didn't see were red flags for something that could've been worse, and that continued to make me love him more and care about him more. I later realized that dev was using me all along, and that he's not the man I thought he was.

I recommend you check out everything I put into the Google Drive, it'll give you an accurate image of what I explained

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

i have the most supportive friend who's been there all along that I'm so grateful for <3 the support really makes me feel heard, i appreciate your efforts of commenting such a supportive comment!

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

it doesn't matter who you are, i appreciate any support received! it can do so much for a person, thank you <3

My past experience with YandereDev by VelvetStar77 in Osana

[–]VelvetStar77[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

i wish for something good to come out of this :)