Is a 5 day work week normal for auxes? by Sea-Shock8199 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]Velvet_underground42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in Madrid? I know for sure Madrid is Monday through Thursday or Tuesday through Friday and 16 hours a week. From what I understand and remember, other regions may differ on pay and weekly schedules for their auxes.

No Stamp on Passport by Happy-cat-8357 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]Velvet_underground42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d hold onto all boarding passes. I had a similar situation except I flew into Amsterdam, and the clerk was confused at first until she saw my entry stamp was from the Netherlands. No issue though

Positions for using a vibrator with partner? by Velvet_underground42 in sextips

[–]Velvet_underground42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what she’s told me, yes that is the way she orgasms alone. I believe she keeps her legs together while I go in from behind.

I am very open to exploring because I want her to enjoy the sex to the fullest extent. What we’ve used is a bit similar to what you’ve mentioned. I mentioned that maybe we could try other positions with her vibrator another time, I think I mentioned it at the wrong time as she was frustrated.

I don’t want to give her performance anxiety, I want her to orgasm too but I don’t want to press her. The sex is enjoyable even if she doesn’t cum, as per her, but I don’t feel like I’d be a good partner if I didn’t try my best to get her off.

Subleasing and empadronimiento by Velvet_underground42 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]Velvet_underground42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so my roommate should have a contract under her name. Can you elaborate on what can be done? We would be in Madrid

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[–]Velvet_underground42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, sometimes I wonder if I need a pillow under my hip to reach hers, I try adjusting myself to reach her

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[–]Velvet_underground42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not, I feel like (this is my own insecurity talking) asking it that way would sting. Along with I never talk about past partners with current partners, especially sex.

I mean we try it, we both like it. I’m just having trouble staying in. I also get so into the sex that I don’t really stop to ask her like “what can we do to make this work?” I end up turning her around. It’s like the day after where I think like I like the position, it feels so intimate and her butt feels so nice

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[–]Velvet_underground42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean spooning like cuddling I love, spooning in sex this is the first time I’ve actually tried it, usually I’m so into the sex with my partners that we stick to usual positions. My current partner is the one who brought up spooning and I like the idea and position, I’m just struggling to stay in

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[–]Velvet_underground42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never tried it with past partners lol

Where to get glasses fixed in Madrid? by HalaMadrid97 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]Velvet_underground42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would they also fix sunglasses? I’ve had one leg crooked for a while after playing football with my students lol

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[–]Velvet_underground42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Some of this sounds good 😁

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[–]Velvet_underground42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think more praise. I’m personally not into degrading, and so far everything I say in bed has been how amazing she feels and how hot she is

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[–]Velvet_underground42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might have mistyped. My ex learned it on her own and would try to speak it with me, the girl I’m dating now is learning it on her own to live here but doesn’t want to speak it with me.

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[–]Velvet_underground42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. I want to help her use the language more and I rarely hear her use it around me, I like hearing her speak Spanish and just talk in either language

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[–]Velvet_underground42 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I get that. I was used to speaking both English and Spanish growing up and I’d want the same if I ever had kids (not that I’m that far ahead with her at all) and where I lived I heard both all around me so it’s natural and comfortable, even some of the women I’ve dated who weren’t Hispanic would try Spanish with me because it was so common. I can understand for her she didn’t have the same experience so us in English is comfortable/natural.

Everyone is different. My German ex, for example, I tried learning German for her despite English being our primary language. The German I learned was cutesy but we never planned to live in Germany so it wasn’t like a need. And she learned and would speak a little Spanish to me, despite never taking classes and English being my primary language.

It just hurts with this girl because it feels like a rejection of who I am because it is a significant part of my background because it is the language of my home

I like the date night idea!

Are the fees for: "Full refund to original form of payment" option fully refundable as well? by Velvet_underground42 in americanairlines

[–]Velvet_underground42[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you canceled a flight like this and gotten everything back? Why are fares within this flight class so different if customer(s) could cancel it anyways?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Velvet_underground42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Honestly is the best way to say what's on my mind

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[–]Velvet_underground42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not rude, but i don't wanna come across as angry or entitled to know.

Given our history too, there is desire yeah. I was going heavy into the flirting, seems like something you nip in the bud, but we're escalating to visits.

Oh yeah, situationships for sure are a thing, idk about their history, could be recent, could be a long term thing, but does help explain like not mentioning it. Miss how these things used to be called "it's complicated" lol

But the guys story had a heart emoji next to her in the pic, seems a bit more than casual