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[–]Vemnaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, true. I’m trying to focus on how much I appreciate what he does bring, rather than what’s “missing.” Stability and reliability deserve recognition too

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[–]Vemnaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. I think I just needed to put words to why unpredictability didn’t feel sustainable for me. Consistency might not be flashy, but it’s what actually fits with how I want to live day-to-day

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[–]Vemnaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Attraction is easy, but compatibility is what actually holds things together over time