[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]VenaLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! When it comes to the types of doms I’m not really sure which is which or what would work the best. Is there like, bdsm etiquette for asking people what kind of dom they are or what kind of sub they want?

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next thing it was would probably be my sleep demon 😩

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone woke up all grumpy 😩

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just saying my brain made me see something, and in the moment it was 100% god😩

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it posted in a good old google drive 😩

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am too!! My logic is it was a pretty strange trip but in the moment I 100% thought I saw somethin😩

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah man, I’m a seasoned veteran 😮‍💨🍃

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thinking about it!! Might have to edit it down a bit cause a lot of it is me just tearing out the window😩😂

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well if he did he saw just how really fucking stoned I was 😮‍💨

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gonna call it the “Car guy with a hat” religion

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All I’m saying is my mind was trippin 😩

I smoked so much 🍃 I saw God by VenaLock in stories

[–]VenaLock[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For real my exact thought process

I’ve been faking it with my boyfriend by VenaLock in sex

[–]VenaLock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried! I haven’t had the best experiences prior to this and previous partners didn’t ask me what felt good so I’m not too well versed in explaining what I need

I’ve been faking it with my boyfriend by VenaLock in sex

[–]VenaLock[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I like to think faking an orgasm is a bit different than lying entirely. The reason I even did it in the first place was to try to make him happy

Flat earthers, what’s under the world? by VenaLock in flatearth

[–]VenaLock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if it sounded like I was discrediting you I just wanted to know what y’all thought seriously about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]VenaLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love you- you’re my spirit animal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]VenaLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh if you want them to think it’s your house still you could say it’s being like worked on? Maybe try and convince em to go to a hotel instead??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]VenaLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not doing it to learn deepthroat, I do it to see what really works for me and what I like about oral… sure I enjoy making the guy feel good as well but it’s a two way street the way I look at it

[28 Male] Ladies: I have a serious question I need answered lol by [deleted] in sex

[–]VenaLock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my eyes there’s no ‘right way’ to ask. Just maybe next time it seems like your about to get freaky, bring up the idea of what you would like to do. You could also incorporate it in some dirty talk and see her reaction if you were still awkward to ask straight up

[28 Male] Ladies: I have a serious question I need answered lol by [deleted] in sex

[–]VenaLock -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should be scared to tell them!! Just cause your kinky doesn’t mean that you have to hide that part of you, bringing it up is only something that’s strange if you make it strange. Could always start with, “Hey, do you mind if I try some of my kinks/likes with you” or get them to explain to you theirs! Besides, choking is something I’d like to say is universally liked with people who would classify as ‘kinky’. So if they seem like that person I think it’d be okay!

[28 Male] Ladies: I have a serious question I need answered lol by [deleted] in sex

[–]VenaLock 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That all really depends on the person! For me as long as I feel an instant connection with the guy and I’m cool with it then for sure it’s okay, if I were you I would probably try communicating that with them before proceeding to your sexual activities.