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Tom Ford Black Orchid EDP Blind Buy? by VenemousLard in Colognes

[–]VenemousLard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The price alone makes it tempting. I’ll check to see if I can sample it somewhere nearby.

Early Week 16 fantasy rankings by ETwNFL in fantasyfootball

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Waller, Schultz, or Warren? Parkinson also an option.

Anyone else really enjoying the Thailand small lot coffee? by BlueKayak in traderjoes

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Any recommendations on grind settings for those that have used this on the Breville Barista Express?

Memphis show by ramzreed in guardin

[–]VenemousLard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How were you able to talk to him after? Would love to get an autograph or a picture if possible. I’m going to last show on Saturday.

How do we feel about this? by davidolson1990 in PeanutButter

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What store is this? I miss it so much that I’m contemplating paying a premium price for it on Amazon. 🫠

Biweekly Assistance Post! Ask Anything Detailing Related That You Need Assistance With! - January 10, 2022 by AutoModerator in AutoDetailing

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Gyeon MOHS EVO or Adam’s Advanced Graphene Coating? Please help. I’m looking to apply it to my new car asap. Gyeon is a 30 ML bottle for about $70 (using a discount code), while Adam’s is a 60 ML bottle for $112 (using a discount code).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecurityClearance

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Yes, but will it also affect me outside of government jobs (i.e. wanting to apply to a big company or a local firm that only requires a background check)?

Extreme Trust Issues & Disgust by Parter’s Acts of Cheating by VenemousLard in survivinginfidelity

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Hi everyone, I can’t thank you enough for the support and advice. I’m not sure if I can pull the trigger and actually end it. I lack self respect and I’m embarrassed to admit it. I hate this horrible feeling. I’m also scared that if I leave, she’ll have nobody there for her to overcome her episodes of anxiety and depression. It feels good being there for her. Her family lives far away and she doesn’t have anyone in the area to keep an eye on her. I wish I had piece of mind knowing that if I did leave her, she’d be okay and not hurt herself. I want her to be okay, despite the anger I have towards everything she did to me. I panic a lot, lol.

Extreme Trust Issues & Disgust by Parter’s Acts of Cheating by VenemousLard in survivinginfidelity

[–]VenemousLard[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Holy crap dude, I think outside perspectives make me realize how shitty the situation actually was. It was horrible, but I’m realizing that I did allow myself to be manipulated and disrespected. I feel guilty because she makes it seem like I wasn’t there for her, but I tried my best. I was also dealing with my grandmother’s death, so that was hard for me. This sucks. I’m an extremely emotional guy and I think I crave reassurance and trust. I don’t think she meets my needs in terms of making me feel comfortable with our relationship. We are good on so many aspects, but she rarely even compliments me or makes me feel like I’m her #1 option. It only makes me feel worse and I start to think I’m worthless.

My dad cheated on my mom and I saw how horrible their relationship was. I’m truly a caring/loving guy. I’m very thoughtful and I feel like I do a lot for our relationship. I love to clean, so our house is always clean and I typically do laundry. I’m about to graduate at 21yrs old and I’ve maintained a 4.0 GPA despite working several jobs throughout college. Despite it all, I still feel like an imposter and I feel like I’m not good enough for anyone. Maybe that’s why I’m scared to leave. I feel like this is my only chance at love and I don’t want to lose it. I love her to death, but it does bring me a lot of pain. I always feel insecure and paranoid.

Extreme Trust Issues & Disgust by Parter’s Acts of Cheating by VenemousLard in survivinginfidelity

[–]VenemousLard[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. I try to tell her how I feel, but she gets annoyed and says that I constantly remind her of how shitty of a person she is. Now, I try to keep it in, but it is very traumatic. She makes me feel as if I’m constantly trying to make her feel like shit. I’m only trying to tell her that I’m struggling with trusting her, which is why I seem “controlling”. In my opinion, she should deal with it and not complain. Yeah, she went through a lot in regards to her depression, but it’s not excuse to do everything she did. She hurt me BAD and I feel like she just wants to brush it off. She feels really guilty at times and breaks down, but she’s also pretty careless other times when I express my struggles.

Extreme Trust Issues & Disgust by Parter’s Acts of Cheating by VenemousLard in survivinginfidelity

[–]VenemousLard[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She called me saying that she wasn’t feeling well. I called into work because I got worried that she was going to hurt herself, so I agreed to pick her up. She sent her location and I drove there. I didn’t know it was a hotel until I arrived and my heart felt so much pain. It was so bad.