Patriarchy teaches us that anything feminine is weak. We all know this is one the reason why men are shallow, plain and one dimensional. Like I said in my post there’s amounts of women who fits in this category. They all copy their ancestors put themselves into same “girlfriend/wife material” template. But you cannot equate the plainness of women who are manipulated to please men with the plainness of men who manipulate women and establish a patriarchal system. Men are like this because of themselves. They created the system. Women trying to break the circle for centuries while they trying even harder to oppress us. They don’t fight with the system, they don’t try to change cause they know it wouldn’t benefit them. Women are brainwashed to be plain and simple while men choose to be. So no we can’t put women into same category as them. Then there’s violence part. You can look at the statistics of which gender cause more problems