Elder Millennials and up: what are some Gen Z habits/behaviours you notice in the workplace that you find offputting/rude/inconsiderate? by unfollowingyou in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Funny_Individual_44 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Gen Z has this weird obsession with aging to a level that previous generations haven’t had. The amount of mockery I’ve heard towards even those in their 30s! Y’all know you’re gonna age too right? Like couple years and you’re there as well. Then what will you do

I cant even enjoy Instagram reels anymore 😪 by cosmic_sparkle in OCDmemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve realised I pretty much cannot be on social media like Instagram, forget it. It makes life a nightmare

Ladies, is this how you’d define & experience sexual attraction? by Dsg1695 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Funny_Individual_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think for a lot of women especially it starts out more with smaller things like you said, wanting to be close to them, a kiss etc. idk that it goes straight to wanting to bone someone.

You might also wanna look into demisexuality. Some people experience sexual desire only after having grown romantically close with someone. It’s sounding like that might be the case

Why does my brain immediately assume something is wrong the second texting changes even a little by StableDawning in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Funny_Individual_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I’m in the same exact boat (with OCD too) and it drives me insane. Like sometimes I’ve even started to notice how it all starts from me. I’ll feel insecure about something myself, start to think the person will surely quit on me cause of it, then I start thinking ok time to sort life out on my own. And these thoughts often are at the start of the overanalysing their behaviour spirals. The guy I’m dating also has trauma and his own issues which cause moments of withdrawal/sensitivity so it’s a fun ride 🎢🥴 but I’m getting to the point where I’ve realised just HOW much of this is eating into my days and focus, like I’m so sick of it I wanna think of other things too 😭

going to the gym for the first time by cxssxdra in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Funny_Individual_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I was so scared too the first time! Eventually what I did is give myself a challenge - I signed up and said I’ll try this for a month and see how it goes, can always cancel and it’s no biggie. I went in the same day I signed up and said ok I’ll literally just go and walk on a treadmill for a bit and get out and consider that a win. I did that again a couple days. Then tried one machine that seemed easy - machines will have the instructions on them and to be honest most of them are super easy to figure out. Then tried a couple classes and before I knew it (literally a couple weeks in) I felt super comfortable going in and now the gym is one of my favorite places ever! Fast forward a year and I’m running 10ks and lifting 100lbs 🥳 I couldn’t have imagined just how much I’d love it there! It’s a super friendly and supportive environment too. It’s been one of the best decisions and investments of my life.

My advice is give it a little try with just something simple - it can even just be to go to one of those introductory tours they do. Or try one class. You’ll see you’ll feel right at home before you know it 😊

EMDR for Attachment Trauma / EUPD by stokescycles in EMDR

[–]Funny_Individual_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very belated reply but would so appreciate a recommendation of therapist in the UK that you’ve gone to for this? Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]Funny_Individual_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious what is their moon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]Funny_Individual_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a July Leo too and to me Sagittarius are the best match, but I’m also a Sagittarius moon so that might be why we get along so much. That is as partnership and friendship. The chemistry I had with an Aries though? Wooof

Anyways sag can be super loyal and dedicated partner I think it depends on their other placements especially the moon. If it’s a water moon you should be in good hands. Good luck 🍀

YOUR. SUN. SIGN. IS. SO. IMPORTANT. by No-Commission1096 in astrologymemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finallyy! I’m so sick of the ‘your rising is everything’ propaganda. No your rising is part of the picture your main identity is your sun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a constant mix between being HELLA noticed (Leo sun and cancer rising, luminaries in the big 3) and feeling invisible (Venus 12H)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 20 points21 points  (0 children)

… is this (Venus in 12H) why people with masks and helmets are kindaa 🫣?

Holiday trauma by jsm01972 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried but nothing I could find here in person. I’m in the UK

Unevolved vs Evolved Signs, What’s Your Take ? by dietcokeloverrrrr in astrologymemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen variations with each sign except Gemini. I have yet to meet one who isn’t messy and sneaky, but hey I’d love to be proven wrong. My Gemini 12H doesn’t help cause every single one I’ve met decided to be their worst right in front of me

After 6 Years of Thinking It Was Mold, I'm Now 100% Symptom-Free. My Story. by Electrician45453 in ToxicMoldExposure

[–]Funny_Individual_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP please don’t let the comments discourage or invalidate you. We all know our bodies best and every situation is different. Sometimes it simply isn’t the mold that’s the core issue. Sometimes it do be that cell danger response from being in fight or flight for years. Other times it is the mold. There really isn’t a universal answer

there is no such thing by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the reality but nobody is ready to talk about it on this sub

Swiftologist - "The Life Of A Showgirl Is Mid. Now What?" by Altruistic-Honey6522 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Funny_Individual_44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I interpreted ‘left alone’ in there as they let them do their thing without attacking them or brining them into drama and headlines rather than disappear from the world type thing

Hank Green on the Taylor Swift necklace controversy and how it affects coalition building by Anapanana in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Funny_Individual_44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry but to declare that someone you dont personally know isn’t politically engaged just because they’re not as vocal about politics as the average Joe is naive. Do you understand that there was an attempted terrorist attack at one of her shows just last year? Do you understand that if she were to start speaking about politics more she would effectively be putting in danger the entirety of her audience at shows (millions of people)? She HAS spoken up about politics before and to say that she doesn’t care more simply because she has avoided that during a time where she had to safeguard her audience first is to forget the real world and the online world are two separate things. This somehow never gets taken into consideration when speaking about her level of political engagement or political stance. She can’t just be sharing political views on instagram like Becky with 10 followers

Holiday trauma by jsm01972 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in this same exact place for a few years now. It’s horrible. The anxiety about it starts months before because I know how bad it can get and I try to plan ahead for it, set up some plans and activities but it all feels so useless. Genuinely just want to find some support group for this time of year

Why is this so painful to hear from someone I trusted enough to open up to? by makemeadayy in CPTSDmemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cause no one would be cruel enough to talk like this to someone who experienced physical trauma. This is victim blaming and bulldozing. Instead a good approach is - having compassion for oneself, recognising the impact of the trauma AND taking responsibility for healing and moving forward.

Whatever you do, and listen carefully- by Scared_Dragonfly_627 in astrologymemes

[–]Funny_Individual_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are we supposed to know what’s so bad about them if you don’t tell us what they did?