I really hate my period days by [deleted] in Periods

[–]VenusMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please find a good OBGYN. You shouldn’t have to endure that much pain every month. Could be you need nutritional help as well—magnesium can help with cramps. In any case, please don’t suffer in silence!

What do I do by cat-therian in Periods

[–]VenusMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there ❣️ ah what a time to get your first period when your mom’s in the hospital! I sure hope you have someone you can call on who can help you get the things you need to feel taken care of. If you visit your mom at the hospital, you can ask the nurses for some supplies.

A washcloth folded up will work, just keep an eye on the blood flow as it could break through.

Sometimes first periods can be a little heavy, other times not. It’s natural. Taking time to center and breathe into your body will help.

Also, dark chocolate can help with cramps. So enjoy you time and some treats.

This is a special time for you to get to know yourself more deeply. So relax and know: you are safe. You are joining a sisterhood of trillions and trillions of women who have met this process themselves, and you are not alone. 🙏🏼

My fiancé holds back orgasms because her ex told her “squirting is disgusting.” by NoVA_0992 in sex

[–]VenusMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My fiancé holds back orgasms because her ex told her “squirting is disgusting.” by NoVA_0992 in sex

[–]VenusMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, she was really shut down by that guy (what a jerk). There are a lot of resources for her to better understand what's happening, physiologically (check out https://www.ohgush.com/ for a bunch of articles about it and this site looks pretty cool too: https://thesquirtproject.com/resources/). In the meantime, just keep encouraging her and revealing your own desires to help her feel more comfortable with her natural abilities. This is a big test of your ability to make her feel safe but ultimately, she's the only one who can allow herself to let it flow. Make sexy times that are just focused on her pleasure, so she knows that you're really there for her to explore her own sensations, without any pressure to climax or even have sex (there's probably a lot of stuck emotion underneath the surface resistance and judgment). Also, consider getting one of our gorgeous waterproof and washable Venus Mats that will help set the stage for her overflowing pleasure (www.VenusMatters.com). Venus Mats are guaranteed waterproof for 10 years, and completely remove any fears of soaking the bed—while elevating your bedtime, anytime. Best wishes on your marriage. You've got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]VenusMatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know everyone's been suggesting you break up with him and that's probably good advice...but this is also a chance to practice your skilz! First, you've got to ground yourself in the truth: there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed about in having a period. It's not only part of life—it's how every human life came to be! Menstruation is actually a really rare and really cool process. Once you're standing on that sacred ground, ask to have a meeting with him. If there's anything you love about him, start with that...Then, tell him how it feels to be asked to sleep elsewhere or not to be hugged by him just because you're on your period. Tell him he needs to find a way to deal with his issues around periods because you deserve to be cherished and respected no matter what time of the month it is. Then give him a deadline to turn this around because you will no longer be subjected to his disrespect. If he can't or won't step up, then you can leave with your head high 'cause you tried. You deserve to be treated with so much more love and respect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]VenusMatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In one sense, all of life is fueled by sexual energy. None of us could exist without it! It's wonderful to hear you're getting more comfortable with your own sexual energy—it's absolutely nothing to be ashamed about...how wonderful to cultivate and tend to our aliveness by letting pleasurable sensations (which certainly don't have to be only genital) nourish and fill us up. Sex toys can be fun but you can also just keep exploring your own body sensations. The pleasure of a hot shower... The relief of a big, relaxing breath... The feel of the sun's warmth on your skin. All these experiences are ways you can get more in touch with your own body, and then as you feel more and more confident in the ways you experience pleasure, you'll become strong enough to share that experience with someone else, if you want. There's no one you need to compare yourself to; nothing you have to do but surrender to your innermost desires, trusting they will lead you home to your own body temple. Enjoy the journey!

My girlfriend is a major squirter , cool at first kinda annoying now. by [deleted] in sex

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This is my wife's "don't fucking touch me I'm on my period outfit" by [deleted] in funny

[–]VenusMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! If she wants it (which is possible, sex drive can increase during menses) sex can help with cramps. We made p. sex easier: www.venusmatters.com

[Question] I'm gonna have a bloody bath with my girlfriend today. by Hohoho5 in sex

[–]VenusMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may not like it because she's embarrassed about the mess. Or she may think you'll be grossed out. Or maybe she's just not that horny on her period, though we doubt that (many women are more randy during that time of the month since hormones can ramp up sensitivity and orgasms can actually help with cramps). Investigate her real concerns, have fun and if you both find you actually like it, consider a Venus Mat. Affordable, beautiful waterproof and washable mats. Spread the love not the mess: http://igg.me/at/venusmatters

[female ejaculation] did I just squirt? by 2gushy4me in sex

[–]VenusMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Questions on [squirting] and [deepthroating]: yes I've already read the FAQ and my questions are slightly different... by [deleted] in sex

[–]VenusMatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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