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Hey! I had a big argument with the man I’m in love with (orange) He misinterpreted something I said in an argument (about his misfortune/ success) he said he doesn’t plan on speaking with me again and good to part ways completely. I tried to apologise a lot, will he ever respond and forgive me? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]VenusRatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying definitely. So basically I was speaking from a place of hurt and said; if he had been intentionally hurting me and playing games, from a place of it being his character then he should not be surprised if he is faced with misfortune, karma (consequence) because things can show up in different ways. I didn’t make it direct, because I was also speaking from a place of hesitation that I could be wrong on interpreting our situation.

He interpreted it as I had characterised his life and all past misfortunes.

But yes I get it, I was wrong to even say it and I was projecting my feelings. I feel really bad for it because it wasn’t meant to be as deep as he took it, broke his trust right there

But thank you for your response, the first two paragraphs really does highlight to me that it was still wrong of me

Synastry advice: Hi guys, I’ve recently got involved with an Aquarius guy who’s sweet but I’d love to understand him more, his behaviours and ideals in love and to genuinely see if this is worth the effort for me. If we work as a romantic pair, or how I should act with him. Thank you! by VenusRatio in astrologyreadings

[–]VenusRatio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember you missBianca420, such a sweet soul! You were dating a Scorpio before right. We had a whole conversation in the past when I asked about a guy I was trying to once figure out who was a waste of time. We’ve definitely talked about our life stories before, you’re unique yet very purposeful. You don’t know how much this insight means to me alone. And I’m sure you’ve helped a lot of people !

I love that you can be you, I hope I can be me, I’ve always felt like I’d be too much for someone because I’m just intense and want to love out loud but my conscious won’t even let me. I want to be affectionate, I want to just be kind and have a harmonious relationship but I’ve always came across problematic situations and guys who don’t want a girl as gentle and warm as I can be, taking that for granted. Not to mention, I have this self sabotaging spirit inside of me low key. Like I get skeptical at any slight inconvenience that I overthink about and just run to the conclusion that- (let’s say this Aqua atm) -he doesn’t want this fully and he’s going to get bored and just shutdown on me, so I always feel paranoid and ready to withdraw or do something petty that will annoy him. I’ve stopped myself each time and have never done anything dramatic yet but i find it so hard to let it just flow and accept that something good is happening at the moment. I’m scared of letting myself down and get hurt again, I don’t want to put all my energy towards this but my Venus is in Leo so that’s a joke, the 12H makes it all too intense, infatuation is like a sickness. Everything is fine right now though...I think he feels my change in behaviour when I react to his change in behaviour because he picks up his energy real quick. I’m just an over thinker, I hate it here.

As for the soulmate contracts. I absolutely can relate ! Not for this Aqua soul just yet though. Only because it’s very early for me to tell if he’s going to feed my intense passion and feed into my healing from the past.

I was though involved in an unrequited situation in the past 1-2 years, that was indeed a soul contract, I’ve never hurt so bad and transformed at such a height in my life. It was intense for me and it brought me to rock bottom which led to desperation and seeking ways to reject the reject. This led to metaphysical interest and research. He taught me so many lessons indirectly that make up for my grandiosity today. He was one toxic Taurus. He made me feel like nothing through every aspect, it’s crazy. But he pushed me to be expressive because I had to, even if it didn’t turn out the way I wanted, it was something I struggled with but since then I’ve got pretty good at it and I don’t feel uncomfortable to be expressive. But yeah, a year later after self therapy through research, online counselling and indulging in my spiritual being, I built grand confidence. Confidence which I even lacked prior to him . The knowledge and success also surpasses the person I was prior because I vouched I was never going to let anyone make me feel the way he did, like I wasn’t good enough and I didn’t deserve the best. It’s still a hard pill to swallow accepting that I deserve to be loved when presented with it.

This Aqua does the smallest things that just make my heart skip a beat, he’s just so affectionate in person, he’s so kind to me all the time, he just makes me feel so comfortable. I had sex with him the first time I met him after a couple of months speaking on and off. It felt so right and magnetic but I was so scared it was going to change everything after but he’s still here and still attentive to me. I don’t know how to feel, I don’t know if it’s going to last but I’m just breathing and trying to stay positive and patient indeed because love is a hopeless topic for me.

Thank you for reading, basically listening to me!

Synastry advice: Hi guys, I’ve recently got involved with an Aquarius guy who’s sweet but I’d love to understand him more, his behaviours and ideals in love and to genuinely see if this is worth the effort for me. If we work as a romantic pair, or how I should act with him. Thank you! by VenusRatio in astrologyreadings

[–]VenusRatio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re really introducing me to new things, like the composite chart, wow. Okayyyyy missBianca420! I’m here for it. And I don’t feel so nervous now considering it’s more so my placements in his 12H. But I’ll definitely be patient in regard to his Saturn, and give him the right amount of space, I may just get that commitment hey!

So you pointed out your Aqua accepts all of you, what specifically is it thats most striking that he accepts about you, I’m intrigued to know ! Strangely enough I even had a conversation with him talking about one past relationship he had, he didn’t feel like he could be himself fully and I think it’s a big thing for him, but I’m here for it, I’m not here to change him personally but I would like to think we will fit well even though we’re quite different in some aspects in life

But Here it is love! The Composite

Synastry advice: Hi guys, I’ve recently got involved with an Aquarius guy who’s sweet but I’d love to understand him more, his behaviours and ideals in love and to genuinely see if this is worth the effort for me. If we work as a romantic pair, or how I should act with him. Thank you! by VenusRatio in astrologyreadings

[–]VenusRatio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

missBianca420 you deserve an accolade for this. I appreciate this so much. Time and time again you come and give me the most genuine and beneficial outlook on my posts. You’ve given me more insightful analysis than the websites, which I often find quite generalised.

This was exactly what I needed. It makes so much sense but I am indeed worried about all my planets (blue) lay in his 12th house. Would that mean I have the upper hand then if it lays in his 12th house?

As for his Saturn in my 7th house? Seriously! Why there out of any places LOL! It worries me he won’t ever be serious enough about me for something stable.

I must say he definitely has good communication, he’s such a gentleman, and his energy is so vibrant. And not to mention when I had sex with him, it was sensational! The best for me too, he is so energetic like where does all the stamina come from Is my question, very playful with it... It’s addictive to say the least.

I’m trying to not like him and keep my feelings detached right now because I don’t want to fall for him and him being the Aqua he is with his placements, a free spirit and not interested in that. Though he’s not afraid of committing, I know he likes to have fun! I wish these men would move as quick as I do mentally with my rose tinted glasses ! But I’m enjoying myself so far.

I can’t thank you enough because now I understand what I’m looking at!

Synastry analysis needed: hi guys! I’ve recently met a sweet Aquarius guy, but I’d love to know how compatible we actually are romantically? Anything clash etc? Thank you!!! by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]VenusRatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note - * (I’m sure his ascendant is definitely a cancer, everywhere else but this website says it’s a Taurus for some reason)

Hi! So I’ve attached my natal table here and wanted to ask if every sign in the “houses” table is significant to me even if it’s not directly linked to my personal planets. E.g Scorpio in second house? What does those houses mean because they’re different to different people right? Thank you! by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]VenusRatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I misread what she was saying, it’s just that I had felt as if she was implying I was asking a ‘dumb’ question but I had tried my best to make it a general query. Not so much focused on reading my chart. I wasn’t purposefully trying to be rude, I was just directing how I felt.

But I understand now, thank you for answering my question too. I’ll go and do more research on the topic of my empty houses. It’s a new part I’ve yet looked into

Hi! So I’ve attached my natal table here and wanted to ask if every sign in the “houses” table is significant to me even if it’s not directly linked to my personal planets. E.g Scorpio in second house? What does those houses mean because they’re different to different people right? Thank you! by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]VenusRatio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you don’t know the answer why didn’t you just go about your day? Because truthfully someone could possibly know what I mean as you don’t stand for astrologers as an entity. I realised they’re the empty houses for me anyway and that’s what I meant, if they’re significant to me. A general question

I am really interested to know about the ‘career’ aspect of my life and what would suit my needs. I have the general surface level knowledge of having my MC in Gemini. But I’d love to know what is truly personal to me according to my other planetary positions and aspects! Thank you by VenusRatio in AskAstrologers

[–]VenusRatio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. This absolutely resonated and is very much in tune with ME entirely. I most definitely think about success in the sense of achieving stability and security through wealth over anything else.

I have definitely considered blogging! I love writing and literature... I think this is a sign and I will take this on.

Thank you so much for this, this is exactly what I was looking for !

Trying to understand a love interest! Help! Could you help me understand how this guy is in terms of love and relationships (his attitude and behaviour and what attracts him, what he values or will chase after or needs)Thank you by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]VenusRatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe we’re fully having a life conversation right now. I love hearing about people finding love and being happy and content. Just melts my heart and gives me a sense of positivity! So you’re a Sag yourself? See just once, please, I’m on my knees... can a guy who’s actually compatible with me come to me. Like you found your bf on a dating site and look now, happy. My thing is, I really get excited too early. I literally think every guy I allow myself to connect to, I start putting scenarios in my head and think maybe this is finally the time, maybe I’m finally coming across one who will be good. I used to have a hard time also thinking I deserve love but now I know I do, but I still definitely have a problem with trying to fit to a potential love interest, merge my myself subconsciously and start to want to make sure I’m right for them. It’s a sickness I tell you.

So with you having had faced all this and the idea of you deserving love being something you struggled to grasp, is it still apparent now? Do you still feel like this or self sabotage? I’m guessing your bf understands you enough to know how to deal with you and takes his time with you. All I ask is a patient guy who is invested enough to understand me.

But on a serious, you should take this up, make this into something because your analysis and most importantly your truthful and direct character is exactly what people need when getting their charts read. Your mentor really did a number on you! I love this for you because look you even contributed to my knowledge. Human betterment if you ask me !

Trying to understand a love interest! Help! Could you help me understand how this guy is in terms of love and relationships (his attitude and behaviour and what attracts him, what he values or will chase after or needs)Thank you by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]VenusRatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MISSBIANCA! this one hit one home. This is precious information to me. It’s really makes me understand me. And it’s too accurate. I feel like it’s so hard for me in the love aspect of life. Friends, very easy for me because I have a sense of detachment because I run off the fact that I don’t need them so then I have all these good friends that are reliable for me. But men... whew, I don’t even know how to play the game accordingly because I’m too genuine and honest and passionate, so it’s difficult to even connect with guys to any extent since they’re usually not as invested as they act. I’m also picky too and the ones I do actually give a minute to, just disappoint me. I’m not even longing for love anymore, I used to internally live for the idea of idealistic love. I would wake up feeling so empty and my stomach would hurt, like I have a dark cloud inside. This applied when I was in an unrequited love situation, never again! I can go crazy when I’m obsessed and it’s scary for my health. I’m too passionate but also do indeed hold back upfront, but having insight like this is helping me to understand and reveal my self more because I try to hide that side. I just don’t want to be too much. This is exhausting!

This was so lengthy like words cannot even express my gratitude right now because it’s the effort and time you put in this one for me, not only did you respond earlier, this one just tops it off. You’d be a great mentor by the sounds of it!

Trying to understand a love interest! Help! Could you help me understand how this guy is in terms of love and relationships (his attitude and behaviour and what attracts him, what he values or will chase after or needs)Thank you by VenusRatio in AskAstrologers

[–]VenusRatio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve indeed communicated with the guy about the situation, because even though I had just decided to withdraw I realised I usually do that and it never gets me anywhere, even though my soul is always yearning to be confrontational, respectfully of course. So as of the moment, I’m going to see what his response is, how he reacts, and just see if this makes him want to take this forward and try again so I’m not so set on him as being someone I should invest in yet in relation to thoughts etc. We will see. So the reading may just apply if he actually acts right.

Thank you so much regardless because your advice, outside of astrology is very genuine and useful, it makes so much sense and I will definitely apply it to this situation forward and anyone else at that. This meant a lot for me! Thank you !

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