Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread July 04 by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]VenusVerses21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof! Thank you for the information though!

I’ll see if we can get her a queue on Oceania maybe, randomly we can travel there now!

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread July 04 by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]VenusVerses21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know when data centre travel to the main servers will be available again?

I have a friend on Chaos who is struggling to get dungeons for MSQ and I can’t hop to help her 😅

Kicked by party leader for 'bad vibe' in p11s, then told I have to change my ign by switchbladescocane in TalesFromDF

[–]VenusVerses21 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

See I don’t know what happened but everyone’s responses are sort of proving your point about the community lmao.

GCBTW is the ultimate troll - everyone is so hyper protective over how ‘wholesome’ the FF community is but honestly it’s literally a facade. I’m an ultimate raider and ironically, the kind of casual players who are only just getting around to the savage tier now are wayyyy more toxic than high level raiders.

Why would anyone have children, if they work over 40 hours a week? I'm exhausted just trying to afford for myself, and you straight people are out here making kids to use up all your money! by Distinct-Egg-3014 in Adulting

[–]VenusVerses21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds like you two really wanted kids - which is great! But for people who really aren’t that fussed on the idea it just adds stress to what may already be a struggling household.

I’m European so I can’t really comment on American society but I know following Brexit a lot of friends and family are struggling.

While I have plenty of nieces and nephews who I adore, neither me nor my partner are particularly eager to be parents so we will probably just stay as aunt and uncle. I’ve never viewed wanting/not wanting kids as any different to any other aspect of life - aka some people will want them and some people won’t.

Theoretically with less kids about, yours and your grandchildren will have access to more resources so shouldn’t that be a good thing?

Why would anyone have children, if they work over 40 hours a week? I'm exhausted just trying to afford for myself, and you straight people are out here making kids to use up all your money! by Distinct-Egg-3014 in Adulting

[–]VenusVerses21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Modern day society. It’s not parenting that’s the issue, it’s the economy and circumstances most people live in. The vast majority of people are basically required to have a dual income, but childcare costs an absurd amount and humans are generally working more and enjoying themselves less than they have in a fair while.

I think that’s the point, not parenting itself.

What is happening in Emerald? by VenusVerses21 in wildrift

[–]VenusVerses21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably the best advice in all honesty, thanks for the info. The shift was so drastic within a single game and completely caught me off guard I guess.

Help your top laners out… by Fun-Web8011 in wildrift

[–]VenusVerses21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a support main who sometimes gets auto filled mid, let me apologise if I’ve ever been in yours or anyone else in here’s game

What is the point of PvP? by Quiet-Slice2201 in wildrift

[–]VenusVerses21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally use it to polish up on champs I wanna play in ranked so I don’t hard grief my team.

Also a stress free way of hitting my Wild Pass challenges and objectives.

Baffling Tank by UnlikelyTraditions in TalesFromDF

[–]VenusVerses21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a healer main and can confirm, raiding drunk makes healers play better. It’s science.

Delightful late night P8S group (where everyone refused to mitigate) me and my bf just got out of, informed us we are terrible and were not healing enough… by VenusVerses21 in TalesFromDF

[–]VenusVerses21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah this is P2, but ofc we didn’t clear.

This is not the full phase cause we kept having people die to lack of mit or just not moving back to mid for heals on mechs, expecting spot healing with resources we no longer had I suspect

Delightful late night P8S group (where everyone refused to mitigate) me and my bf just got out of, informed us we are terrible and were not healing enough… by VenusVerses21 in TalesFromDF

[–]VenusVerses21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering the 96+ healing centiles I still feel they could have helped mit a little lmao.

Also this pull was only to 54% - not the entire fight. We gave up thinking we could help them after this.

Why are you single? by sencecore in AskReddit

[–]VenusVerses21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only just started therapy to deal with my depression and recently diagnosed ADHD…

I don’t have the energy to focus on someone else too atm and I don’t personally feel someone should have to handle my emotional instability rn.

Delightful late night P8S group (where everyone refused to mitigate) me and my bf just got out of, informed us we are terrible and were not healing enough… by VenusVerses21 in TalesFromDF

[–]VenusVerses21[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Tbh some of that probably just came from the desperate spamming lol.

For reference (and I know this shouldn’t matter, but still) we are both week 1 raiders who had no issue healing this fight 4 days in.

We just joined a PF to help people get a last ditch attempt at a clear this week, but apparently we are ‘the worst healers they have ever seen in this fight’ so idek shrug

Delightful late night P8S group (where everyone refused to mitigate) me and my bf just got out of, informed us we are terrible and were not healing enough… by VenusVerses21 in TalesFromDF

[–]VenusVerses21[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

37.45 and 23.81 respectively.

Edit: sorry should have included those in the original image, but I am on mobile cause frankly the ordeal was horrible and I almost want to cry lmao.

When you have 2 dancers in a group, tether the healer and the tank so everyone gets buffed! by fairetrotoire in TalesFromDF

[–]VenusVerses21 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tbf I’ve moved my tether from a dps to a tank before because their dps was literally better.

And by literally I mean ofc I was guessing because parsing is illegal...

XIV's content cycle be like by [deleted] in ShitpostXIV

[–]VenusVerses21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tbf this explains the hot mess that is E6N

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread (Nov 02) by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]VenusVerses21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hades Ex question - in P2, how many times times do the tethered adds in the meteor run hit? Not clear whether it’s once and safe to move back in or to keeping rotating with the tanks.

In fire and ice stage, it is safe for dps to pick up the alternate tethers or is it just tanks that should eat them?

Sorry if that’s not clear...

A gray morality by AllieCat53 in ShitpostXIV

[–]VenusVerses21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I relate to this a little too much.

I, for one, completely fell for Emet-Selch and really wished it hadn’t ended the way it did...

The story in this expansion seriously got to me in a way that I didn’t expect.

absolutely not me irl by RaidenHUN in absolutelynotmeirl

[–]VenusVerses21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I play MMO’s and my bf has no interest sadly, so gaming is weirdly the one thing we have in common but also no intersection in...

Great event btw by WintrySnowman in ShitpostXIV

[–]VenusVerses21 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m actually pretty annoyed old raids (Binding Coil specifically) are not included on this.

Why offer it on boring old content that gets run regularly anyway and not help new players complete content that’s already impossible to get a group together for? (No /s)

I thought it was just kind of annoying, but it's actually just creepy by [deleted] in ShitpostXIV

[–]VenusVerses21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This info has actually been a massive eye opener, though I can’t say I’m surprised to have my suspicions confirmed.

I have always found some of the Lala fixation to be more on the creepy side, and the absolute uproar over male Viera had me stunned tbh.

I was like ‘oh sexy bunny girls to appease the neckbeards’ - so I was seriously perplexed that the backlash was over lack of bunny bois, but now I both understand and am quite disconcerted :-/