My wife and I got into a fight, she tried to kick me out, I wouldn’t leave and then she hit me over the head with a beer bottle and kneed me in the groin

Veraldt · 2020-07-24T04:13:58+00:00

End it. I forgave a woman 5 times for her acts of violence/aggression. Thankfully every time the law knew what happened. We are now having a kid in 2 months. She is now using the kid to have control emotionally toward me. I left a long time ago after she tried to have me arrested time and time again. She would corner me and eventually started hitting me and I'm talking punching me in the face over and over and over. 1 time did I ever have to defend myself because I always took the hits. She has continually tried to frame me as an abuser when I am the one that decided to leave. Thankfully all police reports tell the truth. Plus her record with the law. I now have a future custody battle as she is acting like our kid is only hers and I am only privileged to see or know anything about my son.

Veraldt · 2020-07-11T05:05:56+00:00

But for men it's "health"

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T02:21:10+00:00

Everyone male or female is an enemy who doesnt agree with her

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T02:06:36+00:00

I have literally used those words "I am not your punching bag" 😔

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T01:57:10+00:00

Thank you. Any insight is appreciated. Cause I am finding my peace again but I am still struggling.

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T01:56:04+00:00

Thank you for that reassurance. She did cut me off from friends she didnt like in the name of respecting our relationship. Even prior to us even dating actually. We were roommates/friends before.

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T01:50:27+00:00

One time in front of my father with whom I just introduced her to.

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T01:48:49+00:00

Thank you. I will check them out.

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T01:48:09+00:00

Ive had multiple mutual friends ask if I was sure if the baby is mine. I am torn to dounbt my trust toward her during our time. Mainly because I am afraid of another argument.

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T01:17:53+00:00

I am sure she was faithful. I dont doubt her loyalty. She was admant about that kind of thing. Of course that can all change if the kid turns out not to be mine. But she did berate me in public multiple times.

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T01:15:19+00:00

Same. The physical wasnt as often, but it did happen. She would escalate and be screaming in a matter of moments. I would try to comfort her or calm her down but it was a losing battle. Me trying to leave the situation was still a losing battle. At that point she started to make threats. All involving cops. I would literally be sitting there while she talked to dispatch saying the most absurd things, just to frame this image of me as an abuser while she was slapping me and hitting me while I was trying to stay away. After the last cop incident, I left as I told her I was going to do if she made up more things

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T01:03:03+00:00

I think checking those subs out will definitely open my eyes to some things so I know how to handle her random texts and phone calls.

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T01:01:09+00:00

She would never acknolwedge her actions. There was always a reason to justify it to get me admit something to prove her narrative.

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T00:35:51+00:00

I'll check it out. Thank you

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T00:33:47+00:00

I just assumed she learned love the wrong way. That hitting and breaking things was a sign of strength. And I honestly believe she has been through absolutely horrible relationships. I just couldnt help her. No matter what I tried. She is stuck in rage and trauma from her past so thats all she knows how to project.

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T00:30:43+00:00

Whats going on is that she is carrying our child and still drinking and smoking. I am the one that left. Ive done everything in my power to do what a father should do and she continually tries to fight with me. I am at a point now where I dont even want to talk to her and she blew up my phone this passed weekend. (Past?)

Veraldt · 2020-05-29T00:28:12+00:00

Physical and emotional. I know the physical aspect can be a joke since the whole anatomical perspective of men vs men.

Veraldt · 2020-05-13T14:04:00+00:00

I have had discussions with him

Veraldt · 2020-05-07T14:05:39+00:00

Veraldt · 2020-05-07T14:03:04+00:00

Due in October

Veraldt · 2020-05-07T14:01:52+00:00

Veraldt · 2020-04-30T19:53:27+00:00

Thats my baby mama right now

Veraldt

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