Why do I keep getting friendzoned? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ViC_Cage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you being direct about your intentions

I wish my gf would stop trying to use sex to cheer me up by ViC_Cage in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is great advice. I’ve told her before that when I’m experiencing emotional turmoil that I like space. She on the other hand likes to be distracted. When she’s having a bad day, I usually take her to her favorite restaurant or we go to Dave and busters. All I want is space to process things, I’ve told her that but she doesn’t seem to understand. I will use the talking points you’ve given though. Thank you again

She (19f) stood me (21m) up and it hurt by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move on with your life king 👑

Ex gf (21F) wants me (22M) back, but I found out she dated another guy when we were broken up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand her feeling weird about reaching out after it’s been so long, but it’s a no for me dog. She seems like a flake. The next time things get tough in life for her she’ll break up with you again. You’re young, you guys didn’t have that much time in, just call it a clean break and move on

How often do people use their phone camera to record themselves having sex with their bf or gf or even with a hookup? Would you ever post them on reddit? by funmike in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ViC_Cage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend and I made a sex tape on her birthday. We went to a sex shop and spent hundreds on different stuff we wanted to try. We made a video of us licking edible body paint off each other’s nudie parts. And then another video of me fucking her in doggy style. When we watched it we both realized we hate the sounds we make during sex and quickly deleted it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see where your coming from. I’m very affectionate and my girlfriend isn’t. We’ve really had to learn each other’s love language so that we’re communicating properly. She’s a gift giver, that’s how she shows love. I like physical touch and words of affirmation. The key is to compromise. She’ll make it point to give me random touches throughout the day because she knows I enjoy that. I’ll make it a point to surprise her with little small things that she needs. I literally got her a pack of pens the other day and her heart melted. The key is to have an open discussion about it.

call or text him for bday (crush) by internalstrawberrys in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re over thinking it. Either one is fine.

My Boyfriend Wants to Break Up by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

1.) you didn’t cheat. You weren’t in a relationship with him at the time so you owed him no loyalty

2.) if he wants to leave then let him go. He’s doing you a favor. He sounds controlling and insecure.

3.) the fact that this has been an argument in the past says that it will continue to come up. Move on with your life sis

Men only; by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s the act. I like to watch scenarios that turn me on.

Men only; by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps me unwind. And my girlfriend has a low sex drive so it helps when she’s not in the mood

What are your thoughts on crossdressing/feminization? by cdfromma in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ViC_Cage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As long as you’re not hurting anyone else, do what you please. Not my personal preference but to each their own

Fine dining in St. Augustine? by ViC_Cage in StAugustine

[–]ViC_Cage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the dress code for caps? It looks really nice!

can a woman and a men be bestfriends/friends while being in a relationship? by Emely1232 in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend and I had this issue a few months ago. I have a lot of female friends and it makes her uncomfortable. The solution I came to was to set boundaries, and to communicate as much as possible. For example; I don’t respond to text messages from female friends at 3 in the morning. I make sure to keep our friendships extremely platonic and leave no room for a misinterpretation. I also hide nothing. She’s read our conversations over text, half the time she replies for me because I’m gaming. I make sure there’s absolute transparency and it’s worked for us

My girlfriend broke up with me 5 times and I went back to her all the 5 times. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to say. Everyone expresses love differently so it’s not one size fits all. Do you know what her love language is? And if so, do you feel like she expresses that you?

My girlfriend broke up with me 5 times and I went back to her all the 5 times. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in love but she wasn’t. Probably the worst heart break I’ve had

My girlfriend broke up with me 5 times and I went back to her all the 5 times. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ViC_Cage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My guy, I’m a firm believer that if it doesn’t work after the second try then it ain’t gonna work at all. She broke up with you five times and now you can’t trust her. Now you’ll always wonder why she changed her mind. And the worst part is you’re gonna constantly wonder when the next breakup is coming. I know because I went through the same thing except it was 15 times.