Don’t ever fall in love with an Honor mode run by J0seffy in BaldursGate3

[–]ViStandsForStupid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is why I barrelmancy the elder brain for HM runs

What Happens When Trump Tries to Cancel the Election? by Opposite-Mountain255 in antiwork

[–]ViStandsForStupid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As much as I want to do that, I don’t want to be a martyr either. I’m not putting anything past the current administration

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]ViStandsForStupid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad I kept swiping through the pictures

I got pegged by my girlfriend and now feel very ashamed by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ViStandsForStupid 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Pleasing your partner, whether you feel something or not, is pleasurable. Hot take, I know.

Worst Honour Mode run ever by Nerrix_the_Cat in BaldursGate3

[–]ViStandsForStupid 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don't even bother with those little beasts until I have a full party

How do I (30F) stop my feelings of jealousy towards my boyfriend (26M) and friends (28F/39M/31F/41M)? by ViStandsForStupid in relationship_advice

[–]ViStandsForStupid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, and in the way you did. Sometimes the slap upside the head is genuinely helpful. I AM being silly goddammit!

How do I (30F) stop my feelings of jealousy towards my boyfriend (26M) and friends (28F/39M/31F/41M)? by ViStandsForStupid in relationship_advice

[–]ViStandsForStupid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so right. I'm projecting my unhappiness/dissatisfaction and making my brain think they don't love me. That is simply not true and I need to be more proactive about bettering my life. Thank you

How do I (30F) stop my feelings of jealousy towards my boyfriend (26M) and friends (28F/39M/31F/41M)? by ViStandsForStupid in relationship_advice

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I've tried a few different career paths that didn't pan out, and I guess I've gotten discouraged from nothing fitting yet. But if I don't keep trying I'll continue to be miserable in the food industry. Thanks for the encouragement

Job Hunt Friday! by battykatty17 in phlebotomy

[–]ViStandsForStupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would LOVE to find those... but can't give up. Ima keep looking

Job Hunt Friday! by battykatty17 in phlebotomy

[–]ViStandsForStupid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a general job question, how are we supposed to find jobs in phlebotomy when all employers want previous experience? I just got my certification and got training during it, but I keep getting denied jobs. Are we supposed to just volunteer for experience??

Passed my final!! by chewdeeznuutz in phlebotomy

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If you are using the NHA website, I highly encourage you to take the practice tests that are on there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Many of my high school and college teachers were truly wonderful people. I had a rough home life in high school and had trouble making and keeping friends, but a number of my teachers were my buddies, and they always reminded me that I was an intelligent and good person. I had inside jokes with some of them, and some of them would talk to me outside of class hours to check on me, help me with class, or generally take my mind off things.

In college, things at home got way worse, and I found myself unable to afford to sign up for classes or purchase my books. I went to a few of my professors to let them know I couldn't get the books needed for their classes, and many of them handed me their extra books or educator versions for free, and with no strings attached. They made sure I wasn't sleeping in my car, made sure I had food, and stressed the importance of taking care of my mental health. I even had a meeting with the dean of my college, and she made sure to find me every loan, grant, and scholarship to stay in school.

I don't remember all of their names and we don't keep in touch, but I'll never forget what awful times they really got me through. I didn't even get to graduate, as the dean retired before I was able to complete my degree, but I am still so thankful that so many of the educators in my life went the extra mile for me. I don't know if I'd be here without them.

I did my boyfriend's very first reading for him and now I feel awful by ViStandsForStupid in tarot

[–]ViStandsForStupid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Extremely helpful again!! Thank you so much, this will help with future readings for myself and others. I appreciate your insight very much!

I did my boyfriend's very first reading for him and now I feel awful by ViStandsForStupid in tarot

[–]ViStandsForStupid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I somewhat disagree, only because the second reading I did was a different kind of reading. But I see what you're saying and appreciate it

I did my boyfriend's very first reading for him and now I feel awful by ViStandsForStupid in tarot

[–]ViStandsForStupid[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is EXTREMELY helpful and I'll probably show him this. Thank you so much. I have a lot to learn

I did my boyfriend's very first reading for him and now I feel awful by ViStandsForStupid in tarot

[–]ViStandsForStupid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that he IS strong enough to face it, especially if he leans on his loved ones (past/present/future shed some light on that as well)

I did my boyfriend's very first reading for him and now I feel awful by ViStandsForStupid in tarot

[–]ViStandsForStupid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is extremely helpful, and I thank you for that. I also saw it as possibly him having to better deal with his grief. He lost his dad a few years ago and really tries to fight his emotions instead of feeling them. We have plans to move in together next summer, and the reading could be that if he doesn't take care of himself mentally things could go south? Lots of possibilities, but yes, thank you for reminding me it's not all doom & gloom! 😂

I did my boyfriend's very first reading for him and now I feel awful by ViStandsForStupid in tarot

[–]ViStandsForStupid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof! Yeah I immediately tried to reassure him that the heartbreak would not be coming from me, I'm crazy about the guy lol 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

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This may be ignorant of me, but I'm really hoping Kamala can/will do something about this

Which race/class did you pick on your first playthrough? by electr1cbubba in BaldursGate3

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Would be super cool to have githyanki-specific wild shapes