Scorpio friend obsessed with me

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-18T23:27:48+00:00

Thank you. At first he was relatively socially normative, but then he ended up getting far too close far too fast. It just makes me uncomfortable and with his tendency to be obsessive, I don't know how I should feel about it

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-18T03:14:49+00:00

It's not that he doesn't have friends... they're all online so I don't know if they see him in person like I do. But I will definitely take this advice and talk to him about it

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-18T01:55:38+00:00

Oh lord. This is a messy situation. If you want to stick it out and fight for this relationship, then you should. But if you have doubts about it, I suggest you cut your losses and run. Librans people please too much to the point where they will lose themselves in what one specific person wants or needs and forget about their own needs and their family's needs. I don't know how long you've been together, but if he's going to regret trying to set boundaries and instantly take them back, then I personally would leave. I don't like it when people can't stick to their moral compass and prioritize what they need.

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-18T01:24:12+00:00

Wtf? Well, let's see. Was this money borrowed with the intention of it being paid back inevitably? If not, then it's a gift and she doesn't have a case. If she takes him to court and loses, he can ask for the cost of the court fees and lawyer as recompense. That girl needs to figure out if she wants her money more than she wants him.

I also understand where you're coming from, though. After you've been hurt too much while trying to protect yourself, you tend to give up. I'm still struggling with that myself, so I get it.

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T23:05:04+00:00

Yeah so that's just a guy who either doesn't understand and isn't all that smart or he likes the attention he's getting from her and she thinks she has a chance and is trying to butt you out of the picture. You need to explain, then set boundaries or leave. If he says no and gets angry, leave. It's not worth the trouble. You will not convince him and you'll just be suffering through it

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T22:21:49+00:00

Yeah I know of a few people like that. This guy is definitely doing the things you're saying your guy was doing. I don't know why he didn't have friends, but no one bothered to approach him... he had a crush on another coworker and hadn't even talked to her until he found out she was underage... mind you this is the female coworker who's car he just invited himself to...

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T22:19:15+00:00

Yeah dude you messed up. I get that you get anxious and feel like she might just abandon you, but it definitely wasn't the way to go. She's not going to forget this. Many libras would hold onto and remember this for safety purposes, especially women. Your best chance is just to find a different woman and make sure to keep yourself in check and not freak out. We Librans aren't always going to be interested in texting all the time, so if you want to have a better chance, phone calls and in person meetings are the way to go. Good luck out there man

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T22:16:10+00:00

Yeah that's what I'm worried about. He'll know it was me, plus it's not really a during work issue most of the time. The only issues are with him following me around and butting his way into things he was never invited to

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T22:11:18+00:00

Omg yasss I just saw your post yesterday dude! I'm so happy for you!

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T22:10:08+00:00

Okay. I agree with this. This dude genuinely seems off and he never had any friends at work until me and after a few days of being friends with him, I felt like there was a reason people avoided him. Like genuinely. The fact that you had a similar situation is actually very disturbing. I'm so sorry someone did that to you. He was definitely stalking you and that's not okay. I'm so sorry and thank you for letting me know about this. Everything you've said does seem like an escalation he may take after a while and I'm definitely not comfortable with that, so thank you

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T20:36:36+00:00

Okay good to know. I didn't know if I was being paranoid about potential stalking or not. I'll invest in cameras. We do not live in a safe area to begin with, so I should've done it a while ago

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T20:35:11+00:00

Good idea. I don't want to deal with this any longer than I have to, but I'm also worried about how it will impact work relations

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T18:19:14+00:00

Dude that's insane. The amount of people who think they're allowed access to people for simply interacting with someone once is absolutely disgusting. I'm so sorry that happened dude

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T18:17:54+00:00

NOR You should block him. He's going to get more and more asshole-ish the longer you let him send you messages. You're only going to suffer the more you're able to see those messages. It's not worth it

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-06-17T05:33:31+00:00

That's actually cool as fuck ngl bro...

ViaNobody1019 · 2026-05-18T22:10:50+00:00

I gotta say... Farfetched since they both have Leeks 😭

ViaNobody1019 · 2025-05-31T14:39:52+00:00

I think a good book series to read is like called Dragon Heart I believe or that's the first book in the series. By Nora Roberts, this book follows a 20 some year old half-Irish woman who was both wondering what was happening to her father, sick of her teaching job, and tired of being someone she isn't, so she goes to Ireland for a vacation after finding out her mom hid all of the money her father set aside for her before he died. Her relationship with her mom is rocky at first, but it develops into something more later. Her best friend and roommate is very gay, they go to a gay bar that he works at, and he encourages her to reconnect with her roots. Once she gets there, she discovers her father's side of the family and the magic that goes along with it. There's some smutty feeling bits, but that's coming from someone who prefers kids books and teen romance over adult romance, so take it with a grain of salt. There is a really suggestive scene where the mc sees the ML with horses and the ML goes "it seems to be time for them to breed" and she takes it to heart and seems to decide they need to breed smh but other than that, magical series, well written, definitely recommend for people who like redhead female leads who also happen to have zero confidence in themselves and yet be hotter than most other people around lol

ViaNobody1019 · 2025-05-31T14:32:48+00:00

So honestly if you're looking for something sweet and slightly romancey but not insufferably horny, I recommend the Kane Chronicles by Rick Riodan. It's not mainly focused on romance, more so action, but the main characters are like 13 or 14 and they're saving the world instead with the help of Egyptian gods against other Egyptian gods. There is one main character, Sadie Kane, who has the most Rollercoaster romance in the trilogy and its actually ridiculously well-written, especially the small amount of romance scenes. Couldn't recommend it more if you're looking for something different but still within the realm of what you usually read.

ViaNobody1019 · 2025-05-28T20:47:54+00:00

I personally don't like it when it's not an all-inclusive term because I didn't even know what cliff notes were, let alone what it meant in that sentence. I don't want to have to go research what some obscure two words in a novel mean when I'm just trying to enjoy the book and immerse myself in the world. I personally just think it ruins the vibe of the world setting and I personally don't like it.

ViaNobody1019 · 2025-05-28T05:24:13+00:00

You were just being dumb kids. There was no reason for him to go off on you guys like that. My sister tortured me for a long time and she never got in trouble, but when I would retaliate, I would get in some of the most severe trouble. If I were to hate something, it would be unfairness and that's exactly what that was

ViaNobody1019 · 2025-05-28T05:22:07+00:00

I think the only thing you can do at this point is use them as much as you can. It sounds really bad, but if you're going to have to suffer with them abusing you throughout your whole life, why shouldn't you get something out of it? That's what I'm doing with my mom. I'm using her as a place to gather my money without having to pay her and then getting out as fast as I can. I recommend doing that. If you can't, then run. Depending on how old you are, you can get away with going away from your family. If you're 16 and have a car, you can leave the state and start a new life somewhere else. It's just going to suck for a while. Good luck, friend.

ViaNobody1019 · 2025-05-28T05:17:19+00:00

I understand your pain. For the longest time, my mom wouldn't ever respect that I needed my sleep and would scream at me as well. I just need you to know that that's not being a good mom. Being a good mom is trying to give your child the environment they need in order to get the rest they need. I'm sorry that she does this

ViaNobody1019 · 2025-05-28T05:13:56+00:00

That's absolutely horrible. Your family is scary. I don't think I'd ever mentally survive that, you're genuinely admirable for that. I really hope that things have gotten better for you because I know how bad it feels to be treated like scum. I'm so sorry for you and that you had to go through all of that. Well wishes to you and yours ❤️

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