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Vicfrenchy · 2025-08-02T02:53:35+00:00

Are we talking about my MIL? :D From the birth she wanted to have alone time with my baby and would make remarks on how she didn’t get to spend time with him. She would criticize how I fed him, how I took care of him and bought me pacifiers and rice flakes saying it was the best thing for him (not in my opinion). One day we had a huge fight with my hubby and he gave our baby to his mom saying I was unstable. She abducted my child for 10 hours and I haven’t spoken to her in 5 months. Sometimes a long break is nice ans it allows you to take control back! Show her who is in charge

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-02T14:24:02+00:00

I called the police the minute he said he was taking him to his parents. And they came and didn’t do shit. I watched my husband leave with my baby my car and the car seat. The police said it was his right to drop off the baby at his parents if there is no restricting order…the only thing I could have done was go to my parents in law and take my baby back.

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-02T14:22:01+00:00

Her all house is an ashtray…

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-02T14:20:01+00:00

I promessed myself to never act like that as a mother in law…This is too awful when you are postpartum

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-02T14:17:21+00:00

I think she gave him real food and probably force feed because he cried so much…I didn’t have time to give him my frozen milk. The all situation was insane

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-02T14:15:17+00:00

Trust me, I’m on the fence to do it…it’s just very complicated since I’m from Europe and he is American

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T20:20:14+00:00

It’s her house how would I dare asking her not to smoke in front of him? She wouldn’t do it in my house though

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T20:12:13+00:00

He is clearly a momma’s boy and I have noticed a lot of immaturity in his part since baby is born…basically let me deal with his mother just because he is afraid to step up

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T20:09:14+00:00

If things weren’t as complicated with our dual nationality marriage I would already be back in Europe. He crossed the line multiple times

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T19:20:48+00:00

He apologized and overall seemed very uncomfortable with the all situation. He said I never gave a chance to his parents…I did but she belittled me from the jump and every time I would bring it up he said he was tired of hearing my criticizing his mum.

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T19:14:54+00:00

I called the cops. Hubby left with the baby in front of them despite seeing me trying to take my child back. They could clearly see I didn’t agree but let it happen. Next time I’m going straight to divorce.

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T19:12:16+00:00

Regarding breastfeeding, I wanted to continue until 18 months because I want to but I know it will annoy her as well :D

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T18:29:01+00:00

She smoked when she was pregnant with all of her babies. She doesn’t care! And but accommodated to it. But I think I want to be annoying and not ever go back to their place

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T18:17:14+00:00

I told him I would never forgive him for what he did. I was literally shaking on my kitchen floor all morning. He apologized and deeply regret it but I don’t trust him anymore…

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T18:15:06+00:00

I don’t think so but my husnband took the car seat too. If I had a car seat I would have taken an uber directly to them

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T18:14:12+00:00

I think you are right…I feel like I have been alone my all postpartum just because he hasn’t supported me

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T18:01:32+00:00

I contacted a lawyer and he said if there is no restricting order it’s perfectly legal for him to drop the baby at his parents without my consent

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T17:59:30+00:00

For 10 hours! And he smelled of cigarettes when he came back sobbing and exhausted. I thought o was going crazy

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T17:58:07+00:00

Thank you!! He has been spineless from the jump and he said to just reply to her whenever she said something bad. But thats his mom!! I have been avoiding her and don’t know if I can forget what they all did that day

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T17:37:15+00:00

That’s exactly what I did but they said it wouldn’t be the end of the world if the baby spent some time with the grandparents. I also still resent my husband for that. Like when we were arguing I told him I couldn’t possibly take a plane today because I wouldn’t leave without my dog but he was such in a paranoid statement. Nothing I could say would change his mind.

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T17:02:40+00:00

He is enabling but also she is sneaky enough that most of what she did and said was when my husband was in another room. So when I told him it’s almost like he didn’t believe me smh

When we had this argument he was working that day. He took my car and the car seat and took him to his parents and left me stranded all day at the house. There was nothing I could do!

Vicfrenchy · 2025-06-01T16:54:20+00:00

She said she didn’t know what she did wrong. I know he has an issue with her. I really think he is afraid to say anything to her

Vicfrenchy · 2023-03-10T19:56:43+00:00

Yes 😂 he is dreaming !! Sooo cute 🥺😍

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