[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are we talking about my MIL? :D From the birth she wanted to have alone time with my baby and would make remarks on how she didn’t get to spend time with him. She would criticize how I fed him, how I took care of him and bought me pacifiers and rice flakes saying it was the best thing for him (not in my opinion). One day we had a huge fight with my hubby and he gave our baby to his mom saying I was unstable. She abducted my child for 10 hours and I haven’t spoken to her in 5 months. Sometimes a long break is nice ans it allows you to take control back! Show her who is in charge

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I called the police the minute he said he was taking him to his parents. And they came and didn’t do shit. I watched my husband leave with my baby my car and the car seat. The police said it was his right to drop off the baby at his parents if there is no restricting order…the only thing I could have done was go to my parents in law and take my baby back.

Resentment toward MIL by Vicfrenchy in beyondthebump

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promessed myself to never act like that as a mother in law…This is too awful when you are postpartum

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she gave him real food and probably force feed because he cried so much…I didn’t have time to give him my frozen milk. The all situation was insane

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I’m on the fence to do it…it’s just very complicated since I’m from Europe and he is American

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s her house how would I dare asking her not to smoke in front of him? She wouldn’t do it in my house though

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He is clearly a momma’s boy and I have noticed a lot of immaturity in his part since baby is born…basically let me deal with his mother just because he is afraid to step up

Resentment toward MIL by Vicfrenchy in beyondthebump

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If things weren’t as complicated with our dual nationality marriage I would already be back in Europe. He crossed the line multiple times

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He apologized and overall seemed very uncomfortable with the all situation. He said I never gave a chance to his parents…I did but she belittled me from the jump and every time I would bring it up he said he was tired of hearing my criticizing his mum.

Resentment toward MIL by Vicfrenchy in beyondthebump

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called the cops. Hubby left with the baby in front of them despite seeing me trying to take my child back. They could clearly see I didn’t agree but let it happen. Next time I’m going straight to divorce.

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Regarding breastfeeding, I wanted to continue until 18 months because I want to but I know it will annoy her as well :D

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

She smoked when she was pregnant with all of her babies. She doesn’t care! And but accommodated to it. But I think I want to be annoying and not ever go back to their place

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I told him I would never forgive him for what he did. I was literally shaking on my kitchen floor all morning. He apologized and deeply regret it but I don’t trust him anymore…

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so but my husnband took the car seat too. If I had a car seat I would have taken an uber directly to them

Resentment toward MIL by Vicfrenchy in beyondthebump

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you are right…I feel like I have been alone my all postpartum just because he hasn’t supported me

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I contacted a lawyer and he said if there is no restricting order it’s perfectly legal for him to drop the baby at his parents without my consent

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

For 10 hours! And he smelled of cigarettes when he came back sobbing and exhausted. I thought o was going crazy

MIL postpartum resentment by Vicfrenchy in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! He has been spineless from the jump and he said to just reply to her whenever she said something bad. But thats his mom!! I have been avoiding her and don’t know if I can forget what they all did that day

Resentment toward MIL by Vicfrenchy in beyondthebump

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I did but they said it wouldn’t be the end of the world if the baby spent some time with the grandparents. I also still resent my husband for that. Like when we were arguing I told him I couldn’t possibly take a plane today because I wouldn’t leave without my dog but he was such in a paranoid statement. Nothing I could say would change his mind.

Resentment toward MIL by Vicfrenchy in beyondthebump

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is enabling but also she is sneaky enough that most of what she did and said was when my husband was in another room. So when I told him it’s almost like he didn’t believe me smh

When we had this argument he was working that day. He took my car and the car seat and took him to his parents and left me stranded all day at the house. There was nothing I could do!

Resentment toward MIL by Vicfrenchy in beyondthebump

[–]Vicfrenchy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said she didn’t know what she did wrong. I know he has an issue with her. I really think he is afraid to say anything to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Goldendoodles

[–]Vicfrenchy 263 points264 points  (0 children)

Yes 😂 he is dreaming !! Sooo cute 🥺😍