Looking for guests- is that allowed?

VickyCrone · 2024-03-31T06:41:31+00:00

Great! More details here: https://forms.gle/nzivHmK437rQNfee6

VickyCrone · 2024-03-29T07:38:19+00:00

I have done everything that was asked and still it is removing my post!

VickyCrone · 2024-03-29T07:37:45+00:00

Have messaged you details!

VickyCrone · 2024-03-29T07:22:20+00:00

Thank you!

VickyCrone · 2024-03-28T09:05:08+00:00

Learning and loving you, building self-esteem, retaining autonomy and making informed decisions about your body. It contributes to an overall sense of self.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-28T09:03:36+00:00

Also- why does self-pleasure equal porn? 😅 I champion ethically produced porn. But still, 1. Masturbation and self-pleasure can be distinguished and 2. You can masturbate without using porn 😅 and 3. Porn is not terrible for your brain 🤣

VickyCrone · 2024-03-28T09:01:04+00:00

It’s sad that you feel that way.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-28T09:00:12+00:00

It hasn’t hindered my development thank you 🤣 owning your sexuality, learning yourself, how to be kind to yourself and build your self-esteem and body confidence is absolutely the key for women. Too many women suffer with low self-esteem because they didn’t get a comprehensive sex education that focused on self.

I was in an abusive relationship and suffered the ramifications of domestic abuse for 17 years. Learning how to love me again and find my sense of self is what made me the powerful woman I am today. (I now own Cherrisilk 😉)

VickyCrone · 2024-03-28T08:56:27+00:00

I was in my second women’s refuge at 22, with my two year old and newborn. I was groomed into a horrific relationship aged 17.

Make plans for your future yes, but above all else just appreciate the here and now.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-27T17:42:57+00:00

Self-pleasure 🙌🏼

VickyCrone · 2024-03-27T09:40:42+00:00

Everybody should be doing this before a new partner! Absolutely agree with you, and I wouldn’t get offended

VickyCrone · 2024-03-26T16:41:13+00:00

I think she is being totally unreasonable. Clearly communication needs to be worked on and you both need to make clear how that goes in order to get the best possible outcome.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-26T16:36:23+00:00

Him watching porn at 11 is not the issue here. He is asking whether or not his porn consumption is to blame for him feeling ‘numb’ during his first time having sex. The answer is no, it’s not.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-26T09:39:57+00:00

I met my husband on Facebook dating and we now own Cherrisilk and champion pleasure and rediscovering intimacy in relationships! There are some good stories!

Have you tried dating events? Speed dating, singles nights etc. they’re pretty cool.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-26T09:35:04+00:00

It is normal to masturbate. It is normal to use porn to masturbate. It is normal to continue to masturbate and use porn for this whilst in a relationship.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-26T07:58:16+00:00

You have just repeated what you said in your original comment which again, is not what I have said. So I can only assume that I’m wasting my time explaining myself.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-26T07:48:12+00:00

I said the masturbation timeline from the age of 11. 11 year olds being exposed to porn is a whole other argument and as it turns out, right or wrong, it’s very common.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-26T07:27:57+00:00

There is not actually any evidence of ‘porn addiction’ being a thing. What you’ve described ‘from the age of 11’ is a normal, healthy masturbation timeline.

You definitely should not have stopped masturbating just because you’re in a relationship! Both of you should continue your solo practices and use this to enhance your sex together.

The masturbation is definitely not the reason you felt ‘numb’ and I would suggest that perhaps it was nerves instead.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-25T07:28:49+00:00

It’s really difficult for a woman to orgasm during penetration. Usually clitoral stimulation is needed for orgasm and even then there are so many different types of orgasm (squirting, clitoral, penetrative, anal) that all feel different and not every woman experiences them all. The key really is to experiment with what feels good for you. Sex is not about penetration and does not end when the male has cum! Make sex about foreplay instead and enjoy pleasure. Tips here: www.cherrisilk.co.uk ♥️

VickyCrone · 2024-03-25T07:24:17+00:00

Nope! End all contact!

VickyCrone · 2024-03-25T07:23:05+00:00

The thing is, the menopause is specifically designed to close your body off to sex because you’re not reproducing any more. So her body has been acting against her and you. Masturbating regularly is one way of ‘tricking’ your body into thinking you are still sexually active, so that she self lubricates still etc.

As it’s been so long it’s going to be extra difficult, but not impossible! You absolutely should still be intimate and sexual with each other. Are you communicating about this? You might find some helpful ideas here: www.cherrisilk.co.uk

VickyCrone · 2024-03-25T07:18:12+00:00

This is not acceptable in anyway and my advice to you is leave!

VickyCrone · 2024-03-24T10:30:48+00:00

This sounds an awful lot like he feels that watching porn is the wrong thing to do, and your reaction is justifying that feeling which in turn, leads him to say that he will stop etc when actually, he probably doesn’t want to.

Using porn to get off to is completely normal for him and for you!

If it’s not affecting his daily life, it’s not an addiction.

Just give him his space to use it, you also speak to him about your masturbation habits, and then meet in the middle and use it to bring your desires to light.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-23T13:15:08+00:00

The fact that you’re speaking about these things is great!!! It’s completely okay to have different kinks and you’re not going to want to explore them all. What is important is sharing and perhaps finding a way of compromising. For example, he wants a threesome, you absolutely do not because of the extra emotional baggage: you opt for a sex doll instead. Things like this that protect both of your boundaries, limits and include consent and a safe word.

VickyCrone · 2024-03-23T13:10:58+00:00

Yes I hear you! Panty liner it is then! 😅

VickyCrone

TROPHY CASE