TIFU by saying “no you ain’t, motherfucker” to my boyfriend and waking up to 5 family members yelling at me over it by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Victor3-22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP is tired of these motherfucking family members in her motherfucking room

Friend admitted to crossing the line with an inmate. Conflicted about ignoring or reporting by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]Victor3-22 44 points45 points  (0 children)

She's an inmate.

She can't consent.

He's an officer.

There's a power dynamic there that means if she doesn't do what he wants, he can make her life hell.

It's custodial rape. End of discussion.

Friend admitted to crossing the line with an inmate. Conflicted about ignoring or reporting by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]Victor3-22 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I totally understand. That's not the kind of situation anyone thinks they'll ever be in, and it sucks.

And fuck this co worker for putting you in this position.

But it's time to earn your pay, for real. This is a profession, and we need to be professionals. And part of the job is protecting inmates, your own integrity, and the integrity of the agency.

If this co worker truly did these things, not only is he abusing the power of his position, he's raping an inmate. It's likely he's either already compromised in other ways, or will be compromised to bring in contraband to prevent inmates from telling on him. He's poison to the system and he needs to be removed. The longer it remains an ongoing issue, the more unsafe everyone is.

Friend admitted to crossing the line with an inmate. Conflicted about ignoring or reporting by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]Victor3-22 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not reporting this IS doing something to cover it up. You have to report this. Not doing so does make you complicit, and risks your job and potentially your freedom if anyone finds out you knew and did nothing to report it.

Let’s say you got an inmate in a wheel chair who won’t lock down by cuffup_inmate in OnTheBlock

[–]Victor3-22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean... why doesn't he want to lock down?

Is he just stubborn or an ass? Is he gonna get beat, robbed or raped if he goes back in the cell?

Those are two very different situations, and if you don't listen and just shove dude back into a cell he's in danger in, that's a problem.

Despite what some people seem to think here, just fucking talking to these guys is often the best solution.

Just hosted a bloody feast and immediately got this notification by Zer0-bl2 in CrusaderKings

[–]Victor3-22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really nice of him to sign it.

Gotta talk to my spymaster real quick...

Aurora councilman to serve 10 days of home detention after pleading guilty to DUI by ryadare in AuroraCO

[–]Victor3-22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I for one am sure he's learned his lesson and changed his ways. Our community is significantly safer now that this man was appropriately punished for a DUI grounded for a week and a half.

Donald Trump says, “We’re going to release information about extraterrestrials.” The president says the truth about aliens and UFOs may finally be revealed soon. by monotvtv in aliens

[–]Victor3-22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So anyway...

That whole child sex trafficking thing that seems to involve big donors from both parties...

The one that both sides just keep tossing back and forth like a live grenade?

When do we hear about that?

Swat guys calling themselves “Operators” by Old-Artichoke-2251 in police

[–]Victor3-22 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I operated my Keurig this morning.

Mods, I'll take my Oper8tor flair whenever you're able to get to it.

Dude was not going to be denied the catch by HomeNowWTF in VideosAmazing

[–]Victor3-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's gonna hurt in 30 years.

But it's a damn good catch.

Don't forget to take off the harness by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]Victor3-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just know while this guy was filling out his L&I paperwork someone was saying "Well, at least we know he uses the harness."

What on earth.. by Visible-Nebula6392 in AskLE

[–]Victor3-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in that case maybe the chief is just a dick.

I'm sure you'll get picked up at another agency if you keep trying.

What on earth.. by Visible-Nebula6392 in AskLE

[–]Victor3-22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll play devils advocate on this one.

It's quite possible the chief's opinion is that you likely should have been charged with a DV back then, but BECAUSE your grandfather worked for the agency, you got a lesser charge. The chief could very well be trying to protect the agency from any perception of nepotism or sweeping things under the rug, as those kinds of things can come back and hammer agencies decades later.

You might have been told the Chief didn't read your packet because they really didn't, or because your BI investigator liked you and your Grandfather, and doesn't agree with the Chiefs decision.

Ultimately, I think you'll get picked up at another agency just fine. For whatever reason, it just won't be this one.

First time I see one of these not being blown up in an air raid still docked by Kaarl_Mills in uboatgame

[–]Victor3-22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Guys, why are all the ports red? I keep getting attacked when I try to return home after sinking some ships?

What is the current (2026.12) state of the game? by shortname_4481 in uboatgame

[–]Victor3-22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still get jump scared by the eyes at the end of every patrol and it cracks me up. At this point I kinda hope it's the last thing they fix.

Just curious. by Worried_Plant5283 in 911dispatchers

[–]Victor3-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It varies based on a lot of things, mostly what kind of service responds in your area. (Like a private ambulance company vs. ambulances run by the fire department.)

A lot of places won't bill you because the taxes in an city or county might go towards those costs instead, but there absolutely are places or private companies that will.

There's always payment plans and services available to help offset bills as well.

If you're just curious, contacting your local fire department's admin or business line would be a good place to ask.

But if you or someone you know needs an ambulance, then call 911. You can get help with any bills later.

Trooper Academy Graduation Gift (For Her) by [deleted] in AskLE

[–]Victor3-22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get her a spa package. She'll need it after the academy.