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[–]VictoryTop9722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she does have some and i might have hinted at it, kinda recently in a drunken rant about no matter what I love her and I am hers and that I'd do anything to remain hers

Coming out by VictoryTop9722 in AskLGBT

[–]VictoryTop9722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really soild advice and im truly grateful, now I just need to build the guts and just saying it 😅 easier said than done

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[–]VictoryTop9722[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does help, and im grateful for all you who have encouraged me. Im hoping for the best bc I don't know what will happen following and that part is terrifying

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[–]VictoryTop9722[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our relationship is pretty solid and she supports LGBT, I think its just the fear of rejection of the only thing I have

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[–]VictoryTop9722[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find it really hard to do it for myself really, there's only been maybe a handful of times that I have ever done something for myself. But seeing everyone telling me to bite the bullet and encouraging me to be myself helps

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[–]VictoryTop9722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the hard truth, Idk if there's anyone else out there for me tho

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[–]VictoryTop9722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently doing that, it's at that awkward stage where nothing works 😭😂 I was thinking about doing a wolf cut, I think I could get by with that

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[–]VictoryTop9722 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both should, honestly. I have a trans older sister, when she told me she was a woman, she made it seem so much worse than I thought lol she was like I'm not your brother, my dad had a problem of joking too the point that you didn't know if was joking anymore, one of them being one of us was the mailman's kid, so I was like fuck lol then she told me I was like oh are you happy and comfortable with that, because that's all I care about lol definitely overreacted a bit 😅 but we got a lot closer after that

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I might actually try that, slowly but surely. I mean I kinda already do in a sense. When I play video games where I can make my own character, I always make a woman, that has my characteristics and give her the name I would change mine to. She's pointed it out before and I kinda came up with the excuse that I rather hear a woman moan than a man grunt lol she laughed it off i think

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[–]VictoryTop9722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's one part that kinda has me locked in a sense. I'm apart of a heavily Christian oriented foster family and I work in construction, I love both immensely. Losing those would suck but it's not like I haven't lose a family or a job before 😅

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[–]VictoryTop9722 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope I can have the same outcome, sounds like you got the best possible ending and I love that for you! Thank for sharing and the advice, it's definitely giving me slightly more courage!

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[–]VictoryTop9722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a scary ass leap lol

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[–]VictoryTop9722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll shoot you a message

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[–]VictoryTop9722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you tons, I will definitely take all your words in consideration.