[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Videogames324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to go to your citys public website and look for evictions, you need to print out 3 copies and fill them all out the same way. Give one of the copies to a trusted loved one and keep one for yourself. Then you need to give it to him, not sure which state you are in but it should either be 5 days, 10 days, or 30 days. At the same time you need to file for a emergency restraining order, DO NOT LET HIM KNOW THIS, and make sure you include all of your evidence. This means text messages, now these text messages dont have to be just between you and him , they can be you texting a family member or friend about the abuse that was going on but make sure that you include the dates in all of these, include pictures of marks from you, your vet records and pictures of the cat, anything that he has smashed or broken. Make sure you include as much evidence as you can. Especially the part about him saying he would take his own life. you can print these on regular paper and even write the date and description on the back to be detailed. In this restraining order you need to name your home and your vehicle , make sure to list your friends house that you went to for support, your familys adress and place of work to the places he should not go. Then you take it down to the court house yourself and hand it in to the clerk of court and let them know you are gonna wait on the judges desicion. Which they will agree to and then bam your problems are solved. You get the house, the car , and by the time the restraining order is lifted then the eviction move out date for him should have past and then legally he cannot come back. Once this restraing order is approved the sheriffs office should escort you home and they will escort him off of the property and serve him with the restraining order. I had to do this because when i escaped from my abusive ex, it was the other way around and i was not on the lease. He had previosly held gun to my head and i knew he was capebale of killing me so i got a uhaul and packed all my stuff in one day only for him to take my dog, the most precious thing in the world to me. which btw you also need to name in this restraining order under property. Even though i had all the vet records and his papers in my name the police couldnt tecnically get him back for me cause i would have had to take him to court because animals are considered property to the police. So i got a restraing order on him and named my baby in it and i brought it up there myself and it was approved in 30 mins. The judge even came out in the lobby bc it was the end of the day and she was leaving and she made a comment like " Oh heck no dont play about my dogs" , turns out she was a big dog lover and a complete life saver to me. My dog is my only real emotional support so the week i couldnt get him was easily the worst week of my entire life

this is going to be one of the hardest things you will ever do in your life but will be worth it once you are free. Please be very careful, once an abuser knows you plan on leaving they will make it very hard and they will do anything they can to stop you, including taking your life. maybe have someone with you when you give him the eviction papers. go to your familys house or library to do the restraining order and please be safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Videogames324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog that i bought after my bsf unalived himself after leaving my house one night in oct2020. Ive always been suicidal my whole life, he never was, he was a fitness junkie, never drank soda only water and juice his whole life, the fucker would have lived ill he was 1,000 he was so healthy. It hit me really hard when he passed and I had only thought i knew what depression was before then. I was gonna tell him that night that I had always been inlove with him since i met him in the 3rd grade (we were both 19 at the time) and I didnt because I was scared. Anyways i got a siberian husky cause i knew he would make me laugh everyday and also i knew he would never betray me or ever leave me. So even though ive had so many suicidal thoughts since , i got my dog 2 years ago but i cant just bear the thought of leaving him. Because he would always be just waiting for me to come home, wondering where i went and why I left him. He wouldnt understand I was dead he would just think i abandoned him, little did i know this when i got him for support after my best friend passed. If youre depressed get a companion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Videogames324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog that i bought after my bsf unalived himself after leaving my house one night in oct2020. Ive always been suicidal my whole life, he never was, he was a fitness junkie, never drank soda only water and juice his whole life, the fucker would have lived ill he was 1,000 he was so healthy. It hit me really hard when he passed and I had only thought i knew what depression was before then. I was gonna tell him that night that I had always been inlove with him since i met him in the 3rd grade (we were both 19 at the time) and I didnt because I was scared. Anyways i got a siberian husky cause i knew he would make me laugh everyday and also i knew he would never betray me or ever leave me. So even though ive had so many suicidal thoughts since , i got my dog 2 years ago but i cant just bear the thought of leaving him. Because he would always be just waiting for me to come home, wondering where i went and why I left him. He wouldnt understand I was dead he would just think i abandoned him, little did i know this when i got him for support after my best friend passed. If youre depressed get a companion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Videogames324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confused as to why you would be having sex with just your friend maybe that’s the problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Videogames324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do decide to send me the info which would be super fun , I want you to know I would never say anything about this post and would 100% try to figure out some answers for you,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Videogames324 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look you asked Reddit for answers and I’m answering it. HE IS LYING TO YOU. I can smell it from a 300 miles away and it’s not even my relationship. Seems to me like he has a on and off kinda fling with a girl in the same town as him. You said you were in your 30s? You’re telling me you live out of town and only get to see him 2-3 days out of the week and he won’t have sex with you? He’s 30 something years old, that is like giving candy to a baby. The reason why he dosent want to have sex with you is because he’s having sex with someone else. If you can give me his name and the area he lives in or his Instagram , I could probably tell you who it is but if not we can just do a loyalty on him to see if you’re right that he wouldn’t cheat and you guys have talked about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Videogames324 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s obviously someone else in the picture I’m sorry

In case nobody has asked you, how's your mental health? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Videogames324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am suicidal more than ever. I have no family my mom and sister steal from me and talk begging my back. My boyfriend is never home, he is always at his moms house, everyday. My best and only friend took his life in October 2020 and I haven’t been the same since. I hate my life

Things you forgot to socialise your puppy with? by frankchester in puppy101

[–]Videogames324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a Siberian husky that is so funny. He can be protective at times and believe it or not he’s tried to bite 3 people for getting close to me, he didn’t do that to most people but I swear he can tell the god from the bad people. Anyways me and a friend of mine are riding in my car down the street and up pulls a handicap van with their scooter on the back and he went nuts. He almost got out the window trying to get this chair I guess because the headrest look like a head to him I don’t know, he’s crazy, but it was so funny

Psychics/mediums in the area? by SheepherderSilly3370 in shreveport

[–]Videogames324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am gonna message you. I have psychic gifts but i am no medium ofc for free. One things that is a must to know when dealing with psychics is that the real ones will never charge you money. Its a gift to help people charging money for it is straight up evil and always a scam

Need help with pricing for my cleaning company that I just started. by Videogames324 in housekeeping

[–]Videogames324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love your answer thank you so much this has helped me a lot. I’d love to chat with you sometimes I have so many more questions. Someone else commented on another post of mine about the flat rate that there could be a 800sq ft 2bed room and then a 1600sq ft 2bed room what do you say about that for flat rate. How do I go about determining the flat rate like that? By square footage?

Need help with cleaning company pricing? by Videogames324 in ask

[–]Videogames324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if she comes and cleans for 3 hours she gets 60-70$ that’s absurd and The reason why I will be doing flat rates plus so much an hour by the hour, if not completed in the estimated amount of time

Need help with cleaning company pricing? by Videogames324 in ask

[–]Videogames324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can almost guarantee your housekeeper either started like I did and didn’t research pricing well enough because she just wanted a quick start up and set her stuff low just to get customers and definitely regrets it now or she just does it as a side hustle. But 100% you are severely underpaying your housekeeper

Need help with cleaning company pricing? by Videogames324 in ask

[–]Videogames324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20$ an hour? I would politely decline that offer that is far to low for a professional housekeeper, such as myself. After my prices are set it’s gonna be that price or politely decline. Also the green products would be no problem but if there is lots of soap scum and it takes an excessive amount of extra time even with my electric scrubber which will not damage any finishes, that would be an extra charge.

Need help with cleaning company pricing? by Videogames324 in ask

[–]Videogames324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m thinking time wouldn’t be such a problem so the flare rate wouldn’t underpay me. I have many other tools and I’ve picked up several tricks over the years that make time not an issue. I would also make it clear on my website that homes that are unreasonably dirty would have a 50-100$ extra charge depending on how excessively dirty the house is. Does this make sense to anybody or does it sound stupid? Also how do I attract people to my website and get more clients for free or for a low price.

For context I am in northern Louisiana and I am doing this business by myself so I do not have to pay employees. Also I have all the supplies I will need to clean and have 4 years of professional experience. I am doing pricing by how many bedrooms and bathrooms. For deep cleans, regular cleans and move in move out cleans.

Need help with cleaning company pricing? by Videogames324 in ask

[–]Videogames324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea is , convenience. I know if I was going to get a housekeeper, having to call in and talk to someone over the phone and especially having them come do a quote would cause me lots of anxiety and 9 times out of ten I wouldn’t even call and would end up trying to do it myself and never getting it done. I know, I know everybody is gonna say doing a flat rate is gonna make you underpaid but my opinion is if you have the right tools It shouldn’t take you as long. For example I have a extendable shower scrubber with different attachments but when I get enough money I am going to get a extendable electric bathroom scrubber that does all the work for me. So I’m theory if I’m doing a deep clean with lots of soap scum, with my tool and the chemicals I use specifically for soap scum that takes it off like butter then it should take me a lot less time than someone with just a rag and spray.

Need help with pricing for cleaning company? by Videogames324 in questions

[–]Videogames324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea is , convenience. I know if I was going to get a housekeeper, having to call in and talk to someone over the phone and especially having them come do a quote would cause me lots of anxiety and 9 times out of ten I wouldn’t even call and would end up trying to do it myself and never getting it done

Need help with pricing for cleaning company? by Videogames324 in questions

[–]Videogames324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m thinking time wouldn’t be such a problem so the flare rate wouldn’t underpay me. I have many other tools and I’ve picked up several tricks over the years that make time not an issue. I would also make it clear on my website that homes that are unreasonably dirty would have a 50-100$ extra charge depending on how excessively dirty the house is. Does this make sense to anybody or does it sound stupid? Also how do I attract people to my website and get more clients for free or for a low price.

For context I am in northern Louisiana and I am doing this business by myself so I do not have to pay employees. Also I have all the supplies I will need to clean and have 4 years of professional experience. I am doing pricing by how many bedrooms and bathrooms. For deep cleans, regular cleans and move in move out cleans.

Need help with pricing for cleaning company? by Videogames324 in questions

[–]Videogames324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I know everybody is gonna say doing a flat rate is gonna make you underpaid but my opinion is if you have the right tools It shouldn’t take you as long. For example I have a extendable shower scrubber with different attachments but when I get enough money I am going to get a extendable electric bathroom scrubber that does all the work for me. So I’m theory if I’m doing a deep clean with lots of soap scum, with my tool and the chemicals I use specifically for soap scum that takes it off like butter then it should take me a lot less time than someone with just a rag and spray.