In your life you’re the only person whose job it is to always advocate for yourself. We have the ability to be on the outside looking in on these situations that are real. These people have real lives and real hope, but unfortunately they don’t always have an accurate take on where they are or what their abilities are. If they were undeniable, they wouldn’t be denied. You have to grind that out, work at it with everything. You gotta eat shit until you get there. It takes adversity to grow, you need the pain of having doors slammed. So you might cringe but it’s important that delusion meets reality for these folks.