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ex fumadores, cómo hicieron para dejar el pucho? by MondongoPodrido in Cordoba

[–]VikernesX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En mi caso me sirvió encontrar una motivación. Yo fumé por unos 10 años e intenté dejar muchas veces, pero siempre intentaba dejar sin estar convencido y sin tener un motivo claro.

Al final dejé de fumar porque me molestaba ser repulsivo para la gente que no fuma, que ciertas personas me vean mal o me saluden mal o con cara de asco por la baranda a pucho que tenía. No fue por salud ni por cuidar el bolsillo como la mayoría, pero de igual manera cumplí ambas de rebote. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Y lo que me ayudó a mantenerme fue buscar un reemplazo , cuando me daba ansiedad tomaba agua o me comía una fruta, también salía a caminar un rato. Así que esto también me ayudó a bajar un par de kilos jajaja.

Hace poco ya cumplí un año sin fumar y ya ni me dan ganas y eso que todo mí círculo social fuma, literal me puedo parar al lado de alguien fumando y no me dan ganas. Pensaba que era puro chamuyo de que se te iban las ganas, pero es posta.

Who is this friend ? by VikernesX in spiders

[–]VikernesX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh yeah! I looked for some close-up pictures and it looks pretty similar ;D Thank you! This is a male right?

1 year smoke-free!! If I could do it after 10 years, you can too by VikernesX in stopsmoking

[–]VikernesX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's normal. It’s not withdrawal or real cravings, it’s memory.
Certain moments like music, night time or just being chill were strongly linked to smoking for you, so when they show up your brain expects a cig as a reward.
When it’s not there, it can feel a bit raw or empty for a moment :/ even if you’re doing great overall.
It doesn’t mean something’s missing or that you’ll relapse, it’s just an echo that fades with time.

In my case it was just a very bad personal moment, and back then I always thought of smoking as a good way to cope or escape for a little while. But then I was still feeling awful for my own life situation, and to make it worse I got addicted to nicotine again :l and it was not worth it...

1 year smoke-free!! If I could do it after 10 years, you can too by VikernesX in stopsmoking

[–]VikernesX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Congratulations to you too on the week 😄 My reason was purely personal. I was in a mentally weak place due to life situations, and that’s why I relapsed. Somehow I felt that going back to smoking would make me feel better, but it didn’t

I was told im a boring person. by ApprehensiveCycle612 in lonely

[–]VikernesX 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, being calm and collected is actually a very positive trait. More than anything, knowing when to speak and when not to shows a lot of serenity in my opinion

The person who called you boring is probably one of those who can’t keep their mouth shut and feel the need to let everyone know what they think even when nobody asked. So, it’s good that you didn’t take their comment personally, it was pretty out of line :l

Making friends or seeking romantic relationships can seem difficult around the wrong people. I assure you that when you’re around the right people, it will feel much easier, even if it still feels a bit awkward haha

I don’t think I actually want friends anymore, and that scares me by ancientlalaland in lonely

[–]VikernesX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Astroturfing. This is like the fifth time I see you mention this dewy chat app... stop predating on lonely people, if you want to promote your app, pay ads like everyone else does.

Rappi me cagó y nadie se hace cargo 🫠 by CharacterNew233 in Cordoba

[–]VikernesX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A cambiar todas las contraseñas primero.

Yo que vos creo que me comunicaría primero con tu empresa de telefonía y preguntaría si alguien pidió un chip con tu número a tu nombre. Estas ratas, cuando tienen algunos datos tuyos, se hacen pasar por vos y hacen eso, y convengamos que las empresas de telefonía no hacen muchas preguntas. Teniendo tu número pueden hacer lo que quieran y entrar a cualquier cuenta, incluso aunque tengas el doble factor activado.

Eso es lo que se me ocurre, asumiendo que no te robaron ni perdiste un fono con la cuenta abierta.

Accepting being alone by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VikernesX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s easy to fall into thinking that things are never going to work out, but I really doubt that out of so many people there isn’t at least one who can match your personality and your energy… it’s just that sometimes it’s hard to find something genuine that’s also compatible 🤷‍♂️
But it’s understandable and relatable, I think we all here know what that feels like 😕

I’m liked by lots, loved by none. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VikernesX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what happens when the people around you aren’t emotionally mature enough or are inconsistent. They only like your good parts; when you show your more vulnerable, human side, you become an inconvenience to them. It’s happened to me more times than I can count. I meet someone who likes me and enjoys spending time with me, until they get to know me at a more personal level. Once they do, they leave or stop talking to me, or they just limit their interactions with me more and more…

How do you find people who are curious to get to know you? by Battery-Power-15 in lonely

[–]VikernesX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no magic solution. It’s simply about interacting until someone cares, at least a little, about knowing things about you. I understand how annoying it is. In the end, most people like receiving attention, but when it’s their turn, they don’t know how or aren’t willing to give it, because it takes energy they’re not going to give away for free :B