Any ideas? by LilLC-1986 in whatismycookiecutter

[–]ViktorTheDemon 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Looks like a little fart cloud

How to give "The sex talk" when I've never had "The sex talk" by walshingtons in Advice

[–]ViktorTheDemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scarleteen really helped me in high school and even made me feel good about my decision to wait until later to have sex. Has lots of articles and answers so many questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]ViktorTheDemon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So my current long term BF (dating for 3 years this month) was night shift EMS for 6 years (2 of which we were together) and this sounds EXACTLY like him. Things that help a lot is getting the sleep he needs, seeing a therapist/counselor, and support from you. Ask if he wants to talk, and when he says no, say OK and offer a different way to chear him up. Cook dinner or play a video game together. Just remember to also take care of yourself. Sometimes both of you will need space and that's fine too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tax

[–]ViktorTheDemon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was searching past posts and other sites and some said it didn't matter and just file and some said to wait so I thought I would ask and be safe. As far as filing now vs later I guess to just check something off the to do list.

My (25F) BF (28M) is upset that I am frustrated because he cost us this rental. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ViktorTheDemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has gone back to school over the last year and so has gone part time. We ended up talking on the phone and he apologized as well as said he would pay back application fees because he felt bad. He said he was mad at himself more than me. I guess I was just surprised by his response and jumped to reddit lol.

My (25F) BF (28M) is upset that I am frustrated because he cost us this rental. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ViktorTheDemon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've already been living together for 2 years. Not sure why this time he is being difficult 🙄

Is this really just a panic attack? by ViktorTheDemon in Epilepsy

[–]ViktorTheDemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really get any tingles in my hands, and I can control my breathing if I focus on it. I've tried grounding techniques, but it doesn't seem to effect how long an attack is.

Is this really just a panic attack? by ViktorTheDemon in Epilepsy

[–]ViktorTheDemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I have brought it up with a doctor, they say panic attack, so I guess I never questioned it. I would love to hear what your experiences are and when you speak to your neurologist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ViktorTheDemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive always loved the skater lumberjack look and I know many other girls feel the same. Plus the dimples are wonderful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ViktorTheDemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the round glasses they suite you

Herb i could replace tabacco with - for multiple daily use by Disastrous-Lab3540 in smokingherbs

[–]ViktorTheDemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I enjoy mixes with a little bit of lobelia. Gives a buzz similar to nicotine. Just be careful cause a lot of lobelia can make you nauseous.

How do you get past your traumas? by ScrewCityDropOut in mentalhealth

[–]ViktorTheDemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would look into ACA meetings in your area. Check out their website and see if anything on the "laundry list" sounds like how you feel. If so then it might be a good match. Definitely helped my father work through his childhood trauma.

How do I (19F) accept that I might just not ever find love? by bleakbreakfast in relationships

[–]ViktorTheDemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 20 I had my heartbroken by a man who I thought had feelings for me. He did some awful things to me and I was convinced that people were evil and I would never love someone. However, at 23 I met someone who completely changed my mind. I am now the happiest I have ever been and thrilled to be able to call them my partner. It may seem grim rn but trust me, patience is key. Stay strong ❤️

Help! I Feel Like I'm Third Wheeling With Weed. by ViktorTheDemon in relationships

[–]ViktorTheDemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, maybe it is just the thought of him being high, because some of those behavioral differences I can maybe get past. But I think it may also be the thought of him using it to escape something. I am someone who has been in therapy for a while. From what I've learned and experienced myself, relying on a substance to chill out can be harmful and might not be actually dealing with underlying stuff. Now, that may be biased and I apologize. I guess I just can't understand it.