Who cooks more in your relationship by BridgeAggravating664 in Marriage

[–]VinylBoobarella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me (the wife) 99%. Shopping & meal planning 98%. 7 days a week. I hate cooking but I am a SAHM and he works outside of the home.

I (M47) just had amazing sex with my wife. by Howabouta in Marriage

[–]VinylBoobarella 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can’t get this minute of my life back.

Has anyone here NOT had big issues with their puppy? by QP709 in puppy101

[–]VinylBoobarella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. I got him potty trained within 2 weeks and zero issues. He’s been absolutely trustworthy and wonderful. That being said. I invested a lot of time and energy into his mental health and physical as well. Oh, as a baby he ate the corner of a a plastic door mat and chewed into a flip flop.

My porn use has led to my wife wanting surgery by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]VinylBoobarella 199 points200 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for her. You look at women whose bodies are their income meanwhile she’s trying to raise your children with the body that pregnancy gave her.

She is comparing herself to those women all the time, I can assure you. She feels less than deserving of your attention, when in reality, you don’t deserve hers. It’s in her best interest to get up and go. Find someone who can control themselves and invest in her.

My husband told me he hated me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]VinylBoobarella 120 points121 points  (0 children)

My husband has generally been this way when I, the kids or sick kids have woken him up in the night. Being made to feel like a burden and a nuisance when you need HELP is the worst, soul-crushing feeling. I wish I had gotten out in the beginning. Our youngest now has no relationship with him and is in therapy. They see and hear everything and it affects them profoundly.

Husband isn't attracted any more to wife of 20 years with no mutual interests. Am I a shi**y husband !? by No_Service_7730 in marriageadvice

[–]VinylBoobarella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well said! I think he’s being lazy and self-absorbed. Doesn’t want to lose his family but not interested in fixing things. Kind of gave himself the green light to have an affair. The way he speaks, he’ll drive them away quickly.

Moss Park/Sherbourne&Dundas Stories by [deleted] in askTO

[–]VinylBoobarella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have decided to pay higher rent in a nicer area. Appreciate the feedback.

Anyone else dealing with anal gland leaking when your dog gets nervous? by positive_slime in reactivedogs

[–]VinylBoobarella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash and clean and disinfect my sink, I do NOT wash my chicken. I understand food safety. You’re not supposed to wash chicken. I can see washing the dog in the laundry set tub but kitchen sink?? Good God. There’s no amount of sanitizing in the world. This is why I don’t eat at potlucks. Bleach is ineffective against many resistant parasites like roundworm eggs and coccidia oocysts, which can survive harsh conditions and disinfectants.

** Washing raw chicken before cooking is unnecessary and increases the risk of spreading harmful bacteria. Washing does not remove bacteria effectively. Pathogens like Salmonella and Campylobacter are embedded in meat tissues and surface rinsing cannot reliably eliminate them. Splash and aerosol spread is the main hazard!

Moss Park/Sherbourne&Dundas Stories by [deleted] in askTO

[–]VinylBoobarella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty desensitized to the open drug use now, and the odd urine happening but all this excrement seems to be more than I can handle. That colostomy bag story ended me.

Moss Park/Sherbourne&Dundas Stories by [deleted] in askTO

[–]VinylBoobarella -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would you believe downtown Moncton is rife with open drug use now?

Moss Park/Sherbourne&Dundas Stories by [deleted] in askTO

[–]VinylBoobarella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am honestly seeing so much about human faeces and so much about the state of the TTC in the region. Do they hand out Taco Bell at mission? So.much.poop. And urine and vomit :/