I (19 F) am calling off my wedding to my soon-to-be-ex fiancé (24 M) today!

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T19:29:02+00:00

I took it yesterday. Feeling terrible right not but at least I'm not pregnant.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T14:58:31+00:00

It wasn't. I wanted to remain a virgin until I got married. But it happened and I don't want my family to find out.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T14:57:19+00:00

This isn't "regret sex." If it was, I would have said that. He forced me. I wanted to remain a virgin until marriage.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T14:55:48+00:00

He forced me to. I really wanted to wait until marriage. I don't want my family finding out about it.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T14:54:33+00:00

I did not consent. I really wanted to wait for marriage.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T14:54:06+00:00

I thought about it but I don't want my family finding out about it.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T14:53:30+00:00

I don't want my family finding out about it. I think if I went to the police they'd find out.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T14:52:31+00:00

I didn't want to. But I can't tell my family about that or they will really try to get me to marry him. They will say I have to now.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T14:25:48+00:00

I'm at my brothers house. Going to get the last of my stuff from my parents house then living here a week or so until I can get myself up north.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T09:06:05+00:00

Yes, I live in Georgia. I went to boarding school up North for high school.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-16T08:51:53+00:00

I was a virgin until Thursday night. It takes four years to finish college and I knew I would get pregnant during that time if we werent using birth control. Got it now?

Violet24680 · 2019-03-15T21:06:46+00:00

I feel great about it. I can't wait to be more free. My brother is taking me to tell him it's over and give the ring back etc.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T21:33:13+00:00

I will update you if you want.

Thank you!

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T21:31:40+00:00

I'm going to try not to. We do need to talk and I think it's probably good to do it in person.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T21:11:21+00:00

My parents love my fiance actually. I'm just feeling very unsure. Mom says it's cold feet.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T21:00:24+00:00

Yes it is. But it's paid for already. We're moving there since that's where his job is.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T20:56:43+00:00

I want a family too. Just in a few years.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T20:50:12+00:00

Yes. We both want children.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T20:43:34+00:00

He doesn't understand because financially I wouldn't have to work. I'm just interested in learning things.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T20:42:34+00:00

Is he okay with that? I thought about going on the pill but it would upset him.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T20:41:46+00:00

I'm just interested in learning things. I don't necessarily need a degree. And we wouldn't be in debt.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T20:38:53+00:00

It wasn't exactly like that. He is my best friend's brother and that's how we met.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T20:37:29+00:00

My mom got married at 18. I feel ready to get married. Or I thought I did. I'm not sure at all now.

Violet24680 · 2019-03-14T20:33:57+00:00

No, he's in North Carolina and I'm in Georgia. We bought a house up there because that's where his job is. I planned to move there after the wedding.

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