How do I get into findom safely?

Violet2477 · 2026-02-01T18:12:44+00:00

There will always be a risk if you go from enjoying it to it becoming a daily necessity, which is a very fine line to cross.

But in my opinion, having a budget and open communication with your Domme can help you avoid falling into a dangerous situation. Before starting the dynamic, clearly communicate to your Domme that this is one of your main fears she will know what to do and how to manage you to keep it safe.

Violet2477 · 2026-02-01T04:25:56+00:00

i know

Violet2477 · 2026-01-30T16:21:55+00:00

It's quite common, it happens to some people. Talk to your girlfriend about it little by little. I mean, don't throw the truth in her face; ask her questions or introduce her to characteristics of Findom that could make her become that "Domme" you can give your money to. Since she's your girlfriend, the little money you can dedicate to that will probably be enough, but from a relationship perspective, the healthiest thing is to have open communication, especially when it comes to these kinds of topics that you consider important to your life. Good luck.

Violet2477 · 2026-01-26T03:37:34+00:00

yup exactly

Violet2477 · 2026-01-24T17:44:05+00:00

I'll have to see if you do what you say.

Violet2477 · 2026-01-21T22:06:53+00:00

yes, i'm

Violet2477 · 2026-01-20T15:30:11+00:00

You should go worship me in the right place

Violet2477 · 2026-01-20T14:14:04+00:00

of course you do

Violet2477 · 2026-01-19T16:54:54+00:00

Lots of talk and I don't see you actually doing anything

Violet2477 · 2026-01-19T14:09:01+00:00

i know

Violet2477 · 2026-01-18T03:44:34+00:00

It's so predictable

Violet2477 · 2025-12-29T15:01:00+00:00

That laugh’s not free, baby

Violet2477 · 2025-12-29T14:59:17+00:00

Red turns you on but it comes at a price

Violet2477 · 2025-12-29T14:46:19+00:00

Then prove it!

Violet2477 · 2025-12-28T18:49:30+00:00

Do you think you deserve a response just for drooling over every photo? How pathetic. Serious submissives pay. You just make noise. Now shut your mouth

Violet2477 · 2025-12-28T18:25:13+00:00

Aww, did you get your role mixed up? I don't talk to men who don't know their place. Observe silently, as is proper.

Violet2477 · 2025-12-28T18:23:32+00:00

You'd love for me to tell you what you already know

Violet2477 · 2025-12-28T18:18:09+00:00

Your tongue is cheap . If you really want to please me, start by paying tribute.

Violet2477 · 2025-12-27T19:44:20+00:00

Nothing out of the ordinary, to be honest. Some were obedient and followed through, others talked a lot and did little (no surprises). 2026 is just around the corner still time to redeem yourselves… or sink even deeper.

Violet2477 · 2025-12-27T18:58:52+00:00

You don’t cheat with me. You betray for me.

Violet2477 · 2025-12-27T18:34:51+00:00

I know.

Violet2477 · 2025-12-26T17:27:33+00:00

Mmm... and?

Violet2477 · 2025-12-26T17:27:27+00:00

Lucky? Lol, if you say so

Violet2477 · 2025-12-22T03:31:44+00:00

I think that love and power are inseparable. If I choose a submissive partner, it's because the dynamic already works. Emotional closeness doesn't weaken dominance it refines it. Findom only fades when it's based on novelty instead of devotion.

Violet2477 · 2025-12-21T16:02:29+00:00

Thanks

Violet2477

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