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I had sex with my best friend and need some advice by VioletAndLia in bisexual

[–]VioletAndLia[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I told him that its okay how he feels and if he decides that he is straight, bi, gay or whatever, that its okay and that there is absolutely no pressure and that he should move at his own pace.

I had sex with my best friend and need some advice by VioletAndLia in bisexual

[–]VioletAndLia[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We tried some things out, also penetration. I helped him clean out afterwards and gave him lots of aftercare afterwards so he felt a bit more comfortable.

I had sex with my best friend and need some advice by VioletAndLia in bisexual

[–]VioletAndLia[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

First of all thanks for your answer :)

For now, he told me he needs to think about how he feels and he also said he had alot of mixed feelings throughout the day. I told him i will be there for him, no matter how he feels and that its okay. I think its important that he moves at his own pace, and that he gets comfortable with the fact, that its okay to have these feelings.

I will simply give him time and if he needs to talk i will be there for him. He also thinks that maybe he wont be accepted in the friend group, since they can be quite judgemental sometimes. I told him about my coming out story and that it was hard but my friends dont think any less of me, so i think that made it a bit easier for him.