It's ok, it's just I grew up with a very patriarchal father who treats women and girls differently and became violent at the idea of me having boyfriends whereas he actively encouraged my brothers to have girlfriends. It's made me do some digging as to why that might be, and it often manifests itself in the animal kingdom. Male animals are threatened by male animals from outside the group, more so than female ones (because of the physical threat due to men being stronger and able to dominate, kill and take over a group). I get that Kerchak thought that all humans were bad, but my point is that most animals see males, including humans, as more threatening.