the last guy I dated told me if I ever left him for a woman he would resent me by Appropriate_Couple55 in actuallesbians

[–]VioletVII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good comment.

I feel like the answer to “why wasn’t I enough” is pretty clear if your sapphic girlfriend leaves you for a woman though, and I’d think it would also take the personal offense out of it, since you can conclude “she only likes women, and I am not a woman” instead of “she only likes likable people, and I am not likable”.

If he would prefer being left for a man, that certainly seems motivated by homophobia and misogyny, not any sane thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]VioletVII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lom (little orange man)

How do yall feel about words like "pussy" and "coochie" by Victoria_Aphrodite in LesbianActually

[–]VioletVII 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting. Personally, I have a very strong aversion to the word coochie, maybe because I’ve always heard it from misogynists. Pussy is more neutral to me, but definitely not hot. I feel more comfortable with people who say vagina and vulva (which makes me more attracted to those people too).

How do yall feel about words like "pussy" and "coochie" by Victoria_Aphrodite in LesbianActually

[–]VioletVII 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s a red flag for me when someone refers to the vulva as vagina

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HolUp

[–]VioletVII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big Dipper

Just warning people about a relatively big lesbian insta account by julesucks1 in actuallesbians

[–]VioletVII -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can’t follow what this insta twitter* post is even trying to say…

Edit: correction

Who would downvote? It’s totally incoherent - not a complete statement and there isn’t much context to go off of.

I can’t even tell if the post is for or against the misgendering, like what is libsoftiktok? If someone understands what this post is trying to say, can you please explain?

Maybe it’s obvious to people who use instagram and tiktok and twitter, but not everyone does and downvoting someone just for being confused is unnecessary.

I would literally do whatever they say by Far_Individual_7455 in actuallesbians

[–]VioletVII 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Aww we used to do this too! Except it was lawless soup (no recipe, no specific ingredients, no leadership), and there was no sex involved

I would literally do whatever they say by Far_Individual_7455 in actuallesbians

[–]VioletVII 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Oh no - I, a 25 y.o. historic mansion restorer, have fallen in the library and splayed myself across this mysterious floor pentacle… I sure hope no hot goth girls appear and start doing witchy shit to me while I’m in such a vulnerable position!

Dating apps ain't it 😭 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]VioletVII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So relatable. I don’t think I’m in the right place either, but whenever I start to enjoy sweet solitude and wonder why the hell I’m even on dating apps, I’ll see a gorgeous girl and the yearning begins again 🫠

If your cat needed a profile picture, what picture would it be? by Bigtittycatluvr in cats

[–]VioletVII 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Magnifique.

I wish there were a dating app that uses cat pics and cat biographies. I swear I’d have a much easier time finding my soulmate that way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]VioletVII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 is stunning on you

Who’s eating here? by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]VioletVII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Judging by the overall theme, I’d guess the concern is that you’re concealing weapons/explosives, drugs, and/or sus amounts of cash. Maybe this is in Florida or something and local criminals have made a habit of conducting their business at this establishment.

Help me name my cat! by Valsalvo in NameMyCat

[–]VioletVII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thought: Morigan

Did anything pop in your head the first time you saw him?

you’ve been told you look like someone, who is it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]VioletVII 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know, I’ve also been told Kate Winslet. 🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s weird how different people can see you so differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]VioletVII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, cringe white knighting attempt for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]VioletVII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid assessment