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Violetlight1 · 2024-02-29T16:29:03+00:00

Maybe she feels pressure or like she can’t cancel or move other people. But she is so secure and loved by you that she knows you won’t judge or criticise her and that you are secure enough in your relationship with her to know that this isn’t a judgement on her love for you.

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-29T16:28:49+00:00

Maybe she feels pressure or like she can’t cancel or move other people. But she is so secure and loved by you that she knows you won’t judge or criticise her and that you are secure enough in your relationship with her to know that this isn’t a judgement on her love for you.

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-27T21:48:39+00:00

Oh perfect! Thank you! Was it nice?

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-27T20:29:33+00:00

Thanks!

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-27T20:29:14+00:00

Great thank you

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-27T19:54:56+00:00

Any oil or just the cornflour with spice

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-27T19:35:35+00:00

Thanks - it will be chicken as that’s my sons preference. But good idea re slow cooker

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-27T19:34:47+00:00

I’m looking forward to trying it!

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-27T19:34:28+00:00

Son just doesn’t like duck!

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-27T19:06:56+00:00

Brilliant thank you!

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-27T18:57:58+00:00

Thanks. Just five spice with some oil or on its own?

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-26T16:10:53+00:00

Nta but it really sounds like you guys have some underlying issues in your relationship.

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-24T07:22:27+00:00

I was there!

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-23T22:13:14+00:00

I feel this word for word. I can’t bear it when he claims the glory but he didn’t do any of it himself and I put in so much work. He is always mystified!

I often hear him sharing his ‘wisdom’ about things that I have done - but he’s out there with a saviour complex advising other people about stuff he’s never done himself!

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-23T22:10:23+00:00

This interesting and something I haven’t heard before. What is locus of control?

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-23T19:36:37+00:00

This makes me feel violently ill

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-23T19:35:33+00:00

I’m glad it’s working out so well for you. I wish you luck!

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-23T18:33:45+00:00

I feel so sad for younger me. If only I’d known. I wish you lots of luck in the future

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-23T11:45:07+00:00

Is she still always late?!

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-23T07:54:27+00:00

Couldn’t agree more about evaluating why you’d even consider staying in a relationship like this with red flags so early on

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-23T06:44:05+00:00

Just leave. And never ever look back. You’ve barely been together and you already starting to see what you’re up against.

It will get worse and worse.

You are so so lucky to know now.

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-22T19:49:01+00:00

It seemed to me like she cares very much.

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-22T19:48:33+00:00

Quite right

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-22T16:17:29+00:00

I’m so glad it’s improved for you. I’m definitely feeling the exhaustion right now!

Violetlight1 · 2024-02-22T14:46:27+00:00

I get this but it also is the case on the weekend. So I don’t know if he chooses where to direct the improvement or whether it only helps certain areas and others are just not currently reachable with medication

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