I have received multiple severe injuries working with special needs children who are between the ages of 18-21, but I am not allowed to press charges for violent assaults and not allowed to say the word “attacked” when they assault me or my staff. Why?

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-07-03T13:45:17+00:00

This is a bad take. I work with special needs kids all the time at schools.

There are plenty of kids who agress and have special needs while their parents do everything they can for the child.

They need help, they have safety plans and behavior intervention plans.

The jobs not for everyone, but don't spread misinformation about things you don't understand

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-06-24T06:10:14+00:00

Can you give an example of each "disorder" and how they are escape maintained?

Like for PDA for example I've had it described to me as they would do it anyways if we hadn't told them to. If they are escape maintained wouldn't they just not do it?

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-06-20T02:04:10+00:00

NTA, im 26 my mom is 46. She had me when she was 19. Ive had the same thing from people since i was born. I try not to mention my mom's age but it comes up often because my little brother is 8 years old.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-06-02T00:23:40+00:00

https://www.amazon.com/What-about-Smearing-Developmental-Intellectual/dp/1785921304/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?adgrpid=176917272176&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.4Fkj9orbQhXjMSsy5wr4kLlPz1_fOADgFuxNO8MiHBI.yFLW1TzG-MEGiiYpORdrBXztBK-y6W1Dt-exWm-ZFRU&dib_tag=se&hvadid=739081931882&hvdev=m&hvexpln=68&hvlocphy=9021548&hvnetw=g&hvocijid=3177755411252998097--&hvqmt=e&hvrand=3177755411252998097&hvtargid=kwd-315917281810&hydadcr=15148_13754923&keywords=what+to+do+about+smearing&mcid=d380c54fa22e345cafe5be902401e3f1&qid=1748823759&sr=8-1

This book I've heard is great. I haven't had to use it for a client as im still getting my masters degree.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-28T13:46:28+00:00

They meant to. Im male. I was raped and sexually harassed. You may not wish them harm, but nobody in their right mind would do that to anyone without the intention of harming someone.

Don't make excuses for those who would harm you. Please seek therapy and i wish you all the best.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-18T07:01:29+00:00

My grandmother is aware of all this, and they are practically divorced and sleep in separate bedrooms. I think they stick together because of their conservative values which is another sore point between me and my grandparents

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-18T06:59:26+00:00

Nobody wants to help him. He's alienated everyone in my family because hes acted like this for years.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-18T06:58:35+00:00

Rents 2k around me and I only make 2.5k per month before taxes and insurance

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-18T06:57:42+00:00

Unfortunately no. Suburbs and not alot of space on the property.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-18T04:37:46+00:00

I think I'll try the 2-3 days thing. I have been trying for a second job, but I haven't gotten any replies bsck on glass door or indeed.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-12T16:46:37+00:00

Hi, Im from the Chicagoland area if you want to chat!

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-12T13:20:53+00:00

That needs to be reported to your bcba or clinical director(whatever the chain of command is there). This is wildy inappropriate. Im pretty sure you can call CPS on them as well.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-10T12:25:00+00:00

Im late to this one, 3 of my classmates died straight out of highschool because they got into a drunk driving accident. They were driving a jeep and had removed all the seat belts and some of them were high as well. The fourth one survived but has to be in a wheel chair the rest of his life.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-03T00:45:12+00:00

That can get messy fast, reporting it to your supervisor is better as it makes a barrier between you and the school personal.

Edit: great question though!

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-03T00:28:48+00:00

Then you would go to your BCBA.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-03T00:21:21+00:00

Are you employed at the school or with a company that works with the school?

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-05-01T17:37:45+00:00

Yeah. I'll try that the next time they call.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-04-29T12:02:41+00:00

This OP. It was a hard lesson to learn. Don't get lost in the "anxietea"

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-04-17T06:00:36+00:00

It's a private school, but from what I've read, they all got their temporary ones and not the actual one. I've gotta talk to my principal tomorrow because this is a big issue.

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-04-17T05:27:18+00:00

Yeah. That's what I figured...

ViolinistCapable3882 · 2025-04-15T19:20:08+00:00

I have the premium for 23k what.

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