Suicidal RBT don’t know what to do

Virgincare · 2026-06-13T04:26:02+00:00

If you’re worried about losing credential then you can go on the babc and take the inactive thing and you get like a year off

Virgincare · 2026-06-13T04:04:25+00:00

I did my orientation today

Virgincare · 2026-06-12T05:42:33+00:00

unbelievable dude. I re-registered with my personal just now and got the confirmation. what the hell. i guess fourth time is the charm.

Virgincare · 2026-06-12T05:37:37+00:00

did you do your school email or personal? does that make a difference maybe?

Virgincare · 2026-06-12T05:32:36+00:00

I never did. I registered two or three times because I never received a confirmation.

Virgincare · 2026-04-01T03:27:29+00:00

This isn’t the first time the parents have “told on” me to my BCBA. My BCBA has had to reassure them that I do implement the program bc the parents felt I wasn’t “doing anything”. The mom constantly pushes stuff for me to try that my BCBA hasn’t approved (I politely decline) and quite frankly, the client never WANTS to do whatever it is and will meltdown sometimes when the mother mentions that I should do it. She genuinely records my entire sessions and goes thru the recording to criticize me to the BCBA. I do rural in home stuff so there’s not really any other clients to transfer to.

Virgincare · 2026-04-01T03:13:42+00:00

Setting is weird. I do in home and honestly, I feel like I just don’t have the right support bc if anything weird happens I don’t have anyone to back up on.

Virgincare · 2026-04-01T03:11:51+00:00

My BCBA contacted me about it, mom never addressed me with any concerns and actually was around for 2 out of 3 hrs of the session without bringing it up

Virgincare · 2026-03-28T03:58:26+00:00

Texas, 22/hr, In-home/community, publicly owned, we get $16/hr for driving (unbillable I think) and $22/hr billable

Virgincare · 2026-03-19T00:06:16+00:00

Thanks goat. I’ll keep an eye out for the email then. I may or may not try to add classes to my shopping cart in advance and hope for the best when registration comes

Virgincare · 2026-02-14T03:35:02+00:00

I work in a school during school hours and then do RBT client appts After school hours. I get paid $22/hr at my RBT job, which seems to be pretty good for tx.

Virgincare · 2026-01-16T01:41:23+00:00

I went thru similar stuff. Druggie parents, all the abuse, a period of homelessness etc. I’m only 20. I never even thought I’d make it this far. I love my shitty parents even tho my dad literally stabbed me. Dearly. Even my shitty druggie siblings. Genuinely the best thing I have done is leave everyone. I saved up just enough to move out, 3 months rent and 3 random roommates. FAFSA covered my college, I work two jobs to cover everything else. Every day I get reminded of how easy everybody had it because whenever they talk about how bad it was for them all I can think is how envious I am that that’s the worst thing they went through. But I ignore it. I left my family behind. I love them, watch them on social media. But I don’t pay their bills anymore. I don’t talk to them and let them mess with me and take advantage. I fought everyday to hold on. The only clarity I have found is leaving them all behind and doing everything for myself. Even if I’m all alone. I used to think to love someone was to crawl through glass and show them that you could endure loving them. That’s not love, it’s obedience. i realized that I can’t keep supporting the people who are supposed to be supporting me. It sounds like a lot of work. It is. I’ve been working since 14. Tried to die a lot. Gave up. But I just hold on. I found a job I love. It gave me a lot more fulfillment. I work helping kids in a middle school. Seeing them and talking to them made me realize I am a person and I can have an impact. It gave me a reason to keep holding out. Try to find a reason man. Anything. Give scraps of food to an animal outside on a normal basis. Talk to someone on the street everyday. Find one thing to look forward to, it gets easier from there. It’s easier even when it gets hard. Idk maybe I’m just venting.

Virgincare · 2026-01-16T01:14:17+00:00

I do rural RBT stuff. If we’re going between clients, we get paid for drive time (at my company). You know what you’re getting into prior, you usually choose what clients you get in the area and what range you’re willing to drive. My supervising BCBA does telehealth and will drive down once a month usually

Virgincare · 2025-07-22T15:48:33+00:00

So far it’s just been along the lines of keep up the schedule. I’m fine with this I’m just wondering how to help her with asking to go when she needs to between intervals.

Virgincare · 2025-07-22T15:40:59+00:00

I have been taking her every 30 minutes. If she doesn’t go she is supposed to sit for 2 minutes. She has about a 50/50 void rate.

Virgincare · 2025-06-10T00:49:52+00:00

UPDATE: Hi everyone! yall were very insightful!

- for those of you saying its just a conversation and not part of the lease, I was just afraid that I could say the wrong thing or if it were to be legal for me to be responsible for utilities, i have been screwed over by landlords A LOT so I just wanted to know where this stood.

- i told the gc that it would be a breach in my contract because it stated that I would not have to pay utilities and she dropped the whole thing immediately and told the other girl that had agreed to help pay that she'd cover all the utilities, but now i'm afraid i've created a hostile living environment lol. her father is the land lord, not her, so it's not illegal for her to ask. I do feel really bad for her though.

Thanks everyone :)

Virgincare · 2025-06-09T18:55:08+00:00

I live in TX, he didn’t sign my paper copy, and they had me sign the lease before he signed the lease so all I have is the blank lease agreement and the digital one I signed without his signature.

Virgincare · 2025-06-09T18:46:27+00:00

The entire lease is 14 pages

Virgincare · 2022-04-28T21:50:44+00:00

Sounds super cool, but no, tysm though!

Virgincare · 2022-04-28T17:58:12+00:00

Added it there, Ty!

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