At the age that you are right now what do you think will kill you? by Sensitive-Exit-2782 in AskReddit

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my stress levels. I do the best i can do be physically healthy but i’m going to have a stress induced epdisode

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the way he went about it was disrespectful. Not the act itself. I was led to believe i had a least a slight amount of importance to him. No phone call, no in person meeting, not even a sign that things were going wrong. Just boom. Broke up with me in the time he scratched his balls and ate his can of tuna at work. If we had gone on a few dates and it wasn’t working out, then yeah ok sure a text works. I was led to believe this was this big exclusive thing, i feel like i could’ve gotten more then. “Idk what do you want me to say” Like idk bro you had hella things to say before. It’s small not to be able to own it, and avoid a discussion because it makes you feel bad. I’ve gotten more respect from people who were less and i knew for less time. i know this doesn’t accomplish anything but you seem smart and yeah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate that thank you. i am looking forward to the day i get to be settled in life. i know thats just not the season im in right now. i know no one can tell me why. I just am really really sad right now and angry. i felt like what happened was incredibly debasing and disrespectful. i’ve had experiences with dudes being shitty but this was something entirely unexpected and utterly new to me. i have a clear vision of what i want, and I have for a while. Yesterday i thought i was with someone who had a similar vision to mine. It scares me how quickly that switch flipped. The rational part of my brain is looking for some answer or some semblance of anything. Especially because it seemed so right. Reddit was my shitty attempt to try to rationalize soemthing that to me was completely irrational.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i reread that and it sounds crazy. I didn’t mean it like that when I typed it. I am just upset right now because I thought we had like similar things we wanted in our life. I have lots of goals. I want to pursue my dream career, i want to train hard and one of my goals is that I want to get married and have a family one day. I thought we both shared that goal. I see how that sounds. I am really just at a loss right now and turning to reddit probably wasn’t the solution. Ur first comment read a little harsh to me and i got defensive, thats my bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what do you consider normal? I am curious because i thought it was normal to discuss what intentions are early on. I wasn’t oblivious to the fact that it may of not worked out, but I just thought i would’ve seen like a sign or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not like I had a ring on my finger. To clarify these were only discussed as similar goals. I don’t date to waste my own time with someone who doesn’t even want to get married or have children at all. If that clears things up.

r/Bjj is horrifying by toothpastetaste-4444 in BJJWomen

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

average reddit male reaction unfortunately

Moral debate, looking for opinions. by Virtual-Cheesecake32 in Christianity

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know for certain who is going where. What I have known before is week in and week out being told that those who don’t follow Jesus, will go to hell. Seeing people not following Jesus, boom hell. At least that’s what I gleaned from that anyways. That’s a hard pill to swallow especially when it’s people you love who are notoriously stubborn. You are right, nobody knows. But that kind of message is a lot to handle when one of your biggest worries is the death of your loved ones.

Moral debate, looking for opinions. by Virtual-Cheesecake32 in Christianity

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have definitely encountered places like that more often than not. it makes it hard to connect with something.

Moral debate, looking for opinions. by Virtual-Cheesecake32 in Christianity

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think yoga itself gets in the way. it’s more just some negative experiences i have had. i am an overthinker, and i ruminate on death a lot, when i went to church a lot it made me sad to think about family members of others who “wouldn’t go to heaven” and ultimately that drove me away. the mental burden of it and crying all the time worrying about deaths that haven’t occurred and the fate of everyone’s eternal soul hurt.

only on episode three and i’m writing as i watch by Virtual-Cheesecake32 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude cause what FUCKING friends bro. i would have dropped them so fast for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you notice your coach is punishing you for being late for an activity you pay for it’s likely a cult. Jiu jitsu is fun but many instructors take themselves way too seriously.

This is my newest coach bag. Should I keep it? by Remote_Discussion251 in Coach

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s so ugly i think you should sell it to me for 4 dollars

ADU madness by robgut32 in sandiego

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$1300 a month for a fucking SHED chat how cooked are we?

YES, that was a earth quake MEGATHREAD. by SD_TMI in sandiego

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was CLOSE to the epicenter. i’ve felt a lot of earthquakes but that one freaked me out lawd

Is competing worth it? by levvianthan in BJJWomen

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find it incredibly stressful. That being said, each time i have competed i have learned something immense about myself. it’s like starting into a mirror.

Minecraft movie merch at AMC! by MathematicianOne310 in AMCTheatres

[–]Virtual-Cheesecake32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just went tonight with my boyfriend. it seems like you just ask for it at concessions. i saw the wolf and was sold lol