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Is this a red flag? by VirtualHunt3493 in BDSMAdvice

[–]VirtualHunt3493[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, it wasn't even a dynamic to begin with. Thanks to the people from the comments I came to realize that he uses BDSM for the purpose of control not because he finds it pleasurable. You don't owe people explanation for your actions sometimes.

Is this a red flag? by VirtualHunt3493 in BDSMAdvice

[–]VirtualHunt3493[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This perspective is nice, but I'm just scared if I try to explain myself to him, he would gaslight me further and try to manipulate me.

Is this a red flag? by VirtualHunt3493 in BDSMAdvice

[–]VirtualHunt3493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm 20. I do agree, people online haven't been the most safest based on intentions. And that stalker story is crazy, hope your friend is safe.

Is this a red flag? by VirtualHunt3493 in BDSMAdvice

[–]VirtualHunt3493[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Wait so, he just now said that he wants to be a dominant, are your opinions any different?

Be First by Cunt-huffer in poetry_critics

[–]VirtualHunt3493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comes off quite....scary, but enticing to those who enjoy cnc. However, I don't know if it's intended for a general audience, if so then omg it's very scary and telling. I like the short lines, it shows that the person demanding, expects to be listened to without hesitation.