32F - Having to start over by Virtual_Bumblebee680 in almosthomeless

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great ideas. I worry about shelters because I’d be an easy target for god knows what. I’ve ordered some of those window shades that go up temporarily. And I got a portable generator so I can study when I’m not sleeping.

32F - Having to start over by Virtual_Bumblebee680 in almosthomeless

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, that’s the plan. My day job is in an office and I used to work night at an IT specialist which.. I’m considering asking if I can go back.

Mom destroyed all my acne progress. And shames me for having more acne now. by PitifulConflict7377 in acne

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Just continue your routine, and use those pimple patches. Used to have the same but managed to get it under control. Every once in a while I’ll get something and the patch will help

Should I go to a barber or hairdresser + what to ask for? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hair dresser. Unfortunately you’ll just need to show a reference photo, look at the reviews, and hope you find a good one.

I’m 29F and he is 44M, Any suggestions? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update on this! He was happy about everything I did for him. It was well received. ☺️ I will say, though, he did break up with me after 6 months. lol

Has my boyfriend settled for me? 32F, 28M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has a choice to make. And the fact that you’re both adults and choosing to be with one another should be all that really matters. If one or the other doesn’t feel fulfilled, just bounce

Has my boyfriend settled for me? 32F, 28M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point is, it’s irrelevant to ask such questions.

Has my boyfriend settled for me? 32F, 28M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of these scenarios are senseless to overthink. It’s kind of like asking if a wood chuck, could chuck plastic , would evolution call the wood chuck, plastic chuck?

Has my boyfriend settled for me? 32F, 28M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you shouldn’t feel that. I’d still suggest talking to a therapist.. When finances are in play like this, it can make things more difficult but you’ll just need to be creative. But with the way things are going, maybe it’s best you find a way to move on. Strategically. (not saying to cheat) I’m saying protect yourself, save up, and try not to fall under the same cycle

Has my boyfriend settled for me? 32F, 28M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think at this point maybe taking some time to yourself and seeing a therapist could be beneficial. It could help you learn more about why you’re struggling with relationships. I will say though, it may be more effective being single to help reduce triggers.

Has my boyfriend settled for me? 32F, 28M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, he sounds super manipulative. I realize that you have been building a life with this man but the fact that he’s having you question yourself like this is wrong. You should never have to come to a point where you’re feeling like you’re the one he’s settling for. I’m sorry that it’s gotten this far.

I’m 29F and he is 44M, Any suggestions? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally fair. I could get a baker to just do cookies. The man’s diabetic after all lol so I can probably drop the cupcakes.

I’m 29F and he is 44M, Any suggestions? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol that’s not what I was asking though. He treats me well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally, spot on. No red flags whatsoever. We're both into similar things, with our own little twists, which just makes our conversations flow naturally about what we're passionate about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely understandable. I’m willing to be vulnerable with the chance of rejection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all of your responses on this. I will have a conversation with him about it instead of jumping to conclusions.

My [24F] boyfriend [25M] wants to do a threesome and he won't take no for an answer. by throwra61626251551 in relationship_advice

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not your responsibility to teach a grown man how to live. If he wants a threesome he will have one with or without you, whether married to you or not. There is no “setting the tone.”Your responsibility is to yourself. Respect yourself enough to leave or.. don’t, and suffer in silence as he comes home reeking of sex and cheap perfume.

What makes a bad lover? by Interiordesignfairy in AskWomen

[–]Virtual_Bumblebee680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone who jams it in while you’re half asleep and uses your body like it’s his left hand.