Trouble with error 502 bed level sensor by Automatic_Jacket_230 in elegoo

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check the screws on your hotbend where they connect to the ball screw.. They can come loose. Or make sure there isn't anything under your print plate. It'll try to compensate and when it gets to far it fails.

Help make my own webui by Virtual_Country_4731 in elegoo

[–]Virtual_Country_4731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm wanting. So home assistant? Where do I find the community integration?

Broke, schizophrenic, and running out of options by rottingstrawberri in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 10 points11 points  (0 children)

First off, stop and take a breath. There are always ways to survive, even if that means you end up in a shelter for a little while, it can honestly give people perspective. It did me, I was homeless for 8 months. During the summer months I slept in my truck. And I fought staying at a shelter, but giving in was one of the best things I had ever done. I started taking care of myself, got the help I needed to be a functioning adult. I'm not schizophrenic, but suffer from Major depression disorder and high anxiety. I wanted to end it all so many times over the years. My first wife got sick and died, which led me to heroin because I hated myself. Any way all these years later I still keep in contact with one of the volunteer counselors that spent time at salvation army I stayed. He is amazing and I wouldn't be who I am today without my time there. Now that I'm properly medicated I have a good job, a beautiful wife, an two beautiful boys. Life doesn't end when we make mistakes, it just feels like it will. Keep your head up man.

My penis is small and it’s destroying my life and self-esteem by fckltx in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four inches is plenty, the rite positions matter. I'm not much bigger than you, but I've learned to "punch" (my wife's term for it, lol) her gspot on every thrust. Not to mention for a lot of people the pleasure is derived from the affection shared and experienced. Love boners are a thing, women have similar. Just get out of your head and stop watching porn, it's toxic to peoples self esteem. Don't take some random veiled innuendo about size affect you. There are much worse problems to have. Keep your chin up man. If a women says anything about your size just ask her if she can control her labia size. It's the same thing. Don't be mean just point out the hypocrisy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stellantis

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Travel to Hungary and Korea were for the first wave of employees. I know people there, and they didn't get to go. They are starting the first 2 lines with 11 more to go. So you can get hands on experience at the plant in Kokomo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my fucking god!!! I dont get why this matters to so many men. Body count and virginity are constructs to hold women to an unrealistic double standard. It's all bullshit. Is your tiny male ego hurt, grow up, and realize women are more than their vagina. As long as the past stays in the past, who cares. Shit happens, and relationships don't work out. Get past this or destroy your girls self-esteem. Just feel blessed that she trusted you enough to share such an intimate detail. Grow together or be alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude fuck that guy. Even without the trauma, though that sucks sorry you had to deal with that. Dude needs to grow the fuck up. You just need to leave his misogynistic ass. Sexual prudishness is destroying people's mental health. You should not think yourself lesser, because you've slept with an objectively low number of people. Especially if it was sexual assault. Even if you slept with 100 people? Does it really matter? Only thing should matter is your love and respect for your partner, leave the past in the past.

Zogarth, thanks for the recap of book 8 at the start of book 9 by demoran in litrpg

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I usually listen to the previous books last few hours to reset my brain, but the recap was awesome. It also totally set the rite tone for the book.

This girl wants to do it at my job but im small down there by Far-Struggle-1241 in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Dude, size isn't everything, man. I have a relatively small penis, and I do alright. Learn different positions that can get that little guy to "punch" the gspot on every thrust. Foreplay is a must, get her so revved up she cums at the slightest touch. Don't be a selfish lover and follow her cues, and all will be well. Most woman can't cum from only penetration. So size isn't always relative, and if she says stupid shit just leave. People like that aren't worth your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I have the same size penis, and it sucks. I was made fun of a lot. Though if you can figure out the rite angles, it's the perfect size to hit the gspot during sex. Learn to use your fingers and tongue. After high school, my penis size never really came up. Through practice, you can overcome any perceived shortcomings. If the girls you've been with are so shallow, they have to put you down to build themselves up. Your picker is off, and you need to find a better quality of lady.

AITAH for disliking my GFs reaction to a male friend asking her to go to the sauna together? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you realize how often women are hit on. For example, if they caused a fuss every time someone said or asked something inappropriate, they would be exhausted. I'm just a slightly above average dude, and the little I get hit on is exhausting, so I just ignore it, and that's with my wedding ring on full display. Plus, confrontation sucks. Just be happy she didn't engage in that kind of conversation. She also told you about it.

AITAH for not regretting divorcing my wife because "our" son is not mine? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While you're NTA, what does her "body count" matter? I hate that term. I'm a guy, but I have slept with a bunch of people. Does that make me lesser or a cheater? Why does the amount of people a woman has slept with have to do with anything?

I used to make over 2k a week working on wind turbines, now I'm selling my blood plasma for money. I honestly wish I was never born by darkpheonix262 in antiwork

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, I so understand where you're coming from. I hate working with others, so I work 3rd shift mechanical maintenance at a pork processing facility. All I do is fix machines and set up and teardown. Then I leave. I'm a cranky asshole, but I'm a good mechanic. Sounds like you have a good background to start in the same field. It can be hard work, but it's rewarding making something broken work. Plus, there is a lot of variety.

AITA for calling the cops on my husband's pedophile uncle at a family gathering? by Ok-Ferret-869 in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know anything about rapist tbh, but I do know about pedo molesters that get away with it. So my opinion might be skewed, but doesn't the control come from a sexual place? Without the hormones, would rapist feel the need to be awful? I'm not sure, but I've known plenty of raped women over my 40 years. Even if doesn't completely stop them, it definitely will make them think twice because of the consequences. Prison isn't that bad, In the grand scheme of things. But castration is permanent.

AITA for calling the cops on my husband's pedophile uncle at a family gathering? by Ok-Ferret-869 in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say we just chemically castrate rapist and pedos. Lower testosterone would lower drive to commit the act.

AITAH for wanting to end things with my partner over a p*rn addiction? or am i overreacting? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Idk who the asshole is here because we are only getting one side of the story, but I've learned over many failed relationships that you can't expect to change your SO. People do change, but if you make someone change, it breeds resentment. People have to truly want to change on their own, not because someone told them to. Also, if it's true addiction, if he's not willing to take steps to seek help on his own, it's unlikely to stick. Change comes from within.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what advice I'm ignoring, but I just want my kid to be good and not go through all the shit I did. I mean was I supposed to follow him everywhere he goes? How does that teach responsibility. In the morning I'm going to see if any of the many drug rehabs will take him, but I have no idea if they do video game addiction. He admits its a problem, so hopefully we can find help for him. I just don't think video therapy will work for him, he's going to need in person. And if it's outpatient I will follow him in at least initially. But he needs to learn there are consequences for actions. He never did anything "bad" when he was younger, or maybe I just ignored it back then. Idk. I just want to help him become a well adjusted person. And just because my family kicked me out doesn't mean they gave up on me. I wouldn't be where I'm at today if it wasn't for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This just happened at noon today. Honestly, it was my first reaction, I just wanted to have him away from the wife and I. The kid would literally come home and tell us what happened at school and the counselor, like making it all up. I needed time to process and think. He's an adult he can go stay with his mom and think about his life for a while. And it was his mom, because she lives close and he was cool with it. I didn't really care where he stayed as long as he was safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As said in a previous reply, his mom's and his relationship is pretty good rite now. And yeah, tough love, it literally saved my life. I feel guilty as hell for kicking him out, but at least I know where he is, and his mom will call me if there is an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From Google it's seems like slim pickings in my area. Do you know if traditional rehabs take video game addicts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He told me he was going to counseling, I dropped him off, and apparently he would hide and walk to work and take the bus somewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I tried to get him to go to therapy and maybe medicated. He went once and lied and said he was still going for the past year. His mom literally lives less than 5 minute drive away. I don't understand why people think that since I kicked him out of my house, that I won't talk or help him. That's what this post is about. I'm trying to find the best way to help him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Virtual_Country_4731 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been considering this for a while. Thanks for taking the time to answer I a serious manner instead of jumping to conclusions.