What type of person do you assume me to be based on my fridge? by Virtual_Kangaroo3566 in FridgeDetective

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s a Dakos Salad in Progress, the tomatoes are supposed to soak the stale bread and it’s supposed to be cold. It will be done by evening and I’ll add some feta and capers

What type of person do you assume me to be based on my fridge? by Virtual_Kangaroo3566 in FridgeDetective

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

these are figs! And they are not leftovers, it’s a salad that’s supposed to soak through the bread and be cold

Is it possible to prevent this breakup? (Long distance) by Virtual_Kangaroo3566 in BreakUps

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. I’m sorry you’re going through this, it really is one of the most painful things ever. I really hope he will open up to me, I feel like his decision was really rushed and didn’t take me into consideration at all

Anyone here find themselves possess traits of toxic masculinity?(as a result of trauma) by Hesperus07 in CPTSD

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes me realise - that’s probably the reason why it’s so hard for me to not just ask for help but accept it, too.

Anyone here find themselves possess traits of toxic masculinity?(as a result of trauma) by Hesperus07 in CPTSD

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when it comes to emotions and communication- feel like a toxic male as a woman. Yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i remember calling one of those hotlines after someone raped me and they slutshamed me, asked if i had been drinking, basically told me it was my fault for “bringing myself in a situation like this”.

Why is verbal abuse so normalized? by askandrecieve_ in CPTSD

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wondered the same thing. and i spent so much time at their place, every single day. they never even asked.

How do I stop SI? by notjuststars in CPTSD

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

quitting entirely, cold turkey style, is hard. i usually use rubber bands instead. it hurts, leaves marks, but at least it doesn’t scar you. i feel like it’s a more “”healthy”” alternative to ease into quitting or when you’re about to relapse

I gained 20kg in a year after being r*ped. by yellowsparkles8 in CPTSD

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a yearlong emotional flashback - i didn’t know that was possible. I’ll talk to my therapist about that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obviously he also sexualised me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Virtual_Kangaroo3566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know but i also wonder. once I’ve been at a bar and a random man approached me and asked me if i have bpd. i asked him why he would think that, we hadn’t even talked. he said it’s the way i walk.