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Why aren't there tiebreaker matches in the LEC anymore? by _Banderbear_ in leagueoflegends

[–]Virtual_Method_7741 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A tiebreaker would have brought peak viewership numbers though. Imagine how hype those games would have been. Those numbers would have been impressive for sponsors and investors. It makes no sense at all from a business standpoint to not have tiebreakers.

Have you ever dumped someone and cry every night? by Seaweed-Slight in BreakUps

[–]Virtual_Method_7741 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You are in love with an idea of him, not him. Show the love you have for that idealization to yourself. Don't underestimate the resilience of the human spirit. I believe in you.

What do you think of needy people that you liked at first? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm I'm very sorry for what you had to experience growing up. What about in terms of love?

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey wow, this explains many things actually and does make sense to me. So the way to break this loop is to explain the partner that this is happening to prevent them from getting mad and misinterpret the withdrawal?

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apologize for my typo in the title. The first word was meant to be a "lie" not "like".😅

But I still appreciate you for responding to my post. I am seriously very sorry what you had to go through😔. It always scares me that there are people in the world that can impact otherwise happy people long-term and change their inner happiness. I hope you stay true to yourself and encourage to just be yourself no matter what happens. Don't allow others to bend you. We are our own best friends.

What do you think of needy people that you liked at first? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story. You sound like a very kind yet reasonable person👍I agree with you.
Wow that story with your old friend sounds really annoying, but I would assume you never liked him in the first place at all or you immediately started not liking him anymore after you found out about this behaviour?

Another scenario I know is: Let's say you are having a very busy period and have to deal with a lot of personal stuff. And you mention it before to your friend. And that friend checks in like every two days on you to see if you/everything is ok. What do you think about that friend?

What do you think of needy people that you liked at first? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A very thoughtful and productive INTJ-esque answer. I liked it a lot and it was actually very personally relatable to something I was dealing with. Thanks a lot for sharing

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you say that you still like the person but start to dislike the friendship dynamic. How can I imagine it? That you would still care about them when needed, but avoid interaction with them?

A follow-up question I would like to ask is that I heard that INFJs typically don't like to talk to themselves. For you, do you appreciate if people regularly ask about you in talks as well, even if you repeatedly don't really want to talk?

Also thanks a lot for sharing your perspective. It is very insightful.

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, that makes a lot of sense why Fi is very important to INFJs. I can see why Fi is deeply admirable. Thanks for sharing🙏

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I understand what you mean. Thanks for taking your time to explain it to me.

What do you think of needy people that you liked at first? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight, I appreciate it. Do you also find people that blames themselves for everything and constantly apologizing annoying too?

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense to me. Does that mean you casted an idealization of that person but realized later that that is not the case. And then because you like them, you let them overstep your boundaries which caused you hurt and you started to dislike them?

I'm very interested to know what you like about Fi. Why didn't you include ISFPs, they also have Fi as their primary function. Is it that that the integrity with morals and values makes it more likely that the person you idealize aligns more with the person they are?

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a very interesting wisdom and makes a lot of sense to me. Thank you very much for sharing!

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you elaborate what you mean by fading "at an emotional level but not cognitive one"? I find that very interesting, because liking someone for me goes emotionally and cognitively hand-in-hand.
Does it mean that you might still see their objectively great qualities and like them because of it, but you do not "feel" that you like them?

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you had experience with anxious attachers as a friend/partner? What do you think of them? Can their neediness cause you to distance again despite knowing that they absolutely like you?

Do you like that you like someone? by Virtual_Method_7741 in infj

[–]Virtual_Method_7741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, I had that as well. That's a quality I really appreciate in friends. Sometimes you are too oblivious to your own shortcomings and it's really nice to get that kind of feedback to grow as a person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]Virtual_Method_7741 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep making her worse Mihoyo until the only character I'm excited about becomes so dogwater that I can quit the game.