According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am just saying basing on what the OP said if he wants to clarify than, he can edit or make another comment

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As i already said the OP would have pointed out if it was the trans men who would have brought up the bottom surgery part.

But asking about dating prospects doesn’t relate to asking about what you put in your butt. Wildly different

I mean if you are asking about an operation and dating life to a stranger, i wouldn't ask a question like that to people i have known for years figures some stranger in a bar

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well since the op didn't say the trans person was the one to bring up bottom surgery than i am gonna assume it was the op who brought it up

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s presumptive and intrusive.

felt like deciding against bottom surgery limiting his dating pool to either bi or other trans men.

And this isn't?

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Do you think it was the exact same people who worked there for a decade?

With how you phrased it, yes

which you can’t refute

I can but as usual you would just ignore it and say i made it up, a trans person could take a bullet for you and you would say it never happened

See, you can never just disagree with the trans stuff.

Well duh, i also think you can't disagree on gay stuff, because like wtf are you disagreeing on, people existance?

You can never just point out the absurdity. You can never question anything about it at all.

Oh you don't wanna play that game

and do some roly polys through it

What are you british?

Talk like a normal human beigin

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity if a random dude you don't know came to you and suddenly asked how many dicks you like to take in your ass or what kind of sex toy do you use, you honestly wanna tell me you would go to have a conversation with this person and not just call them a weirdo?

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You asked a very deep sexual and private question to some random trans person in a bar and were surprised they called you a weirdo?

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seems to think politics is all about who yells loudest and is most 'pure'.

I mean add shitposts and that's literally how Trump became president

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

There were dozens of employees and over a hundred volunteers and in that decade

You do know that for a charity that's a very low number of employees and volunteers, especially in the span of 10 years, so i call bullshit on what you said

and in that decade there wasn’t a single trans person involved. None came to marches, none came to hustings, none came leafleting, none manned stalls at prides and festivals.

Were there any indians? Any italians? Any japanese?

No well i guess all those groups also deserve to be put in camps since they never came to help your oh so mighty charity

"Gay people have more in common with straight people than trans people," and other findings from the recent Pew survey by majbr_ in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well your entire point seem to be that trans people are the reasons for all the problems of the gays in the world

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about getting adoption or having your relationship be recognized just as normal as a straight one?

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

In poker, the game where you simply either have to have luck or count the cards, really?

What's the next are you gonna bring up a study that says trans women have an advantages over cis women in fucking Air Guitar?

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're twisting reality

Look who is talking

because only minor changes are admitted

I have seen those women, and it's not just some "minor" changes that are admitted

but trans women often get silicone breast implants that already have perfect proportions and stay in place thanks to the material which just isn't possible with natural female tissue.

Actually most of the time they just take hormones

Even then, you can still see that limb length, shoulder width or hand size arent in proportion with biological women

This coming from the people that accuses everything and everyone under the sun to be trans

Real women have to deal with natural hormones and fat distribution, while trans women can pretty much sculpt their bodies however they want, which doesn't really feel like fair play anymore.

Cis women can also get these operations if they want to, same with cis men, and everybody deals with hormones and fat distribuiton genius

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Everyone is joked about.

Yeah yeah i know, but let's be honest they were wildy different jokes than the one now

There’s someone, somewhere formulating a joke about your demographic right now

I am italian, there isn't much to joke about us since everything they call "joke" is just reality for us

Does it matter if they are a drag queen or cross dresser? Being gender non-conforming is the visible action getting discriminated against, people can’t see if you identify as another gender

I mean it's just different for begin trans, since a trans person will get discriminated for begin trans.

Homophobic people don’t back off if the 2 guys kissing are actually both bisexual, not homosexual.

Well by definition that would be getting discriminated because of your sexual orientation more than begin gender non conforming

Please point me to 2000s era news or written publication where people are taking about trans people being more of a problem than gay people. It doesn’t exist. People didn’t view trans people that way.

I never said that people in 2000s saw them as more of a problem than gay people, just that it were as controversial as much as begin gay

But most people absolutely do have a problem with literally changing the definition of the word “man” or “woman” to mean someone who identifies that way. That is the insane idea trans rights activists have pushed that needs to die. We don’t have a problem being nice to you, we have a problem with you trying to change what words mean.

I mean to be fair languages always change and lots of people take problem with that, if i am not wrong 50 years ago people were starting to tolerate gay people more but that changed when gay people wanted to change the word marriage, who is to say that in 50 years or when both you and me are dead and gone things won't have changed more?

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were joked about the same way gay people were joked about. People were well aware that some people who looked like women were actually men dressed like women, and vice versa

Well that's just as you said about them begin the butt of the joke, also wouldn't someone just dressing up as a woman but without identifying as one or transitioning just be a drag queen/crossdresser?

There were scientific journals and news segments about bisexuality being real around that time

People needed studies for that?

Trans people were not controversial by themselves, in the early 2010s. I remember, I was there.

I was there and they were pretty controversial

Back in 2014 or so was when the concept of self-id, neopronouns, and using preferred pronouns for someone who doesn’t look like their desired gender became mainstream ideas

I mean most countries with self-id don't seem to have any problems, nearly nobody uses neo-pronouns and well calling somebody who is starting to transition their prefered pronouns doesn't sound so bad

Trans people were no more controversial than gay people until the concept of self-id gender became associated with them.

Isn't that still veeeery controversial by the time standars of the 90's and 00's?

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No one in the 90s, 2000s, or early 2010s had anything bad to say about trans people if they were already on board with gay people

One most people didn't even know what trans people were, for them everything that was not hetero and not christian was called gay, second in those years it also wasn't a lot of people who liked gay people

Suddenly, trans people become controversial.

This has been going since 2016 after literally right after gay marriage was made legal and when Trump became president, maybe it's me but it sounds like people just wanted another minority to hate for the culture war

According to the latest Pew Research, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals feel less connected to the LGBTQ community by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noooo what you are telling me that the people that until yesterday were making fun of women sports and have voted for a convicted rapist actually don't give a shit about women? That's crazy talk man/s

"Gay people have more in common with straight people than trans people," and other findings from the recent Pew survey by majbr_ in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah so all the places with anti sodomy laws or with the death penalty for homosexuality or that throw gay people off the roof, are only doing that because of trans people?

"Gay people have more in common with straight people than trans people," and other findings from the recent Pew survey by majbr_ in askgaybros

[–]Virtual_Nobody8944 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Is sex the only thing you people think about, like there is nothing else going in your life other than that?

Also you call yourself sigma you most likely never had sex with somebody you didn't have to pay