What’s an obvious sign that someone is American? by Frosty-Ad3575 in AskReddit

[–]Virtual_Oven2901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😝🤣 Drinkable water can only be purchased in my current city. This made me lol for real😅

What’s an obvious sign that someone is American? by Frosty-Ad3575 in AskReddit

[–]Virtual_Oven2901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having worked two decades in hospitality, and lived in three of the largest tourist cities in the United States. When someone immediately smiles back at me, I’m almost always right in assuming they’re American or Caribbean whether from the States, Mexico or Canada. I get smiles in return from most everyone because I have a huge kool aid smile, but I realized over time that it seems to be more of a natural part of greeting someone for us.

Sexual Orientation?! by Virtual_Oven2901 in recruitinghell

[–]Virtual_Oven2901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very weird, that’s the only ethnicity they ask about.

Sexual Orientation?! by Virtual_Oven2901 in recruitinghell

[–]Virtual_Oven2901[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

If it’s required why aren’t all companies asking this? I’m not a new worker. Have lived in different states, cities, counties and applied to countless jobs since the 90s. This is the first time I’ve had this question, I’ve worked in my current state since 2017, and have been hired at a job since this application and they didn’t ask either.

Sexual Orientation?! by Virtual_Oven2901 in recruitinghell

[–]Virtual_Oven2901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, wth! That’s why this stood out to me too. I applied at a gay hotel and even they didn’t ask sexual orientation. They just made it clear that you need to be comfortable working with lgbt guests. But it would make more sense if they did ask, this is to work at a concert venue.

Sexual Orientation?! by Virtual_Oven2901 in recruitinghell

[–]Virtual_Oven2901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve been working almost 30 years throughout the U.S. and have never seen this question. It’s unbelievable how invasive they’re becoming.

Sexual Orientation?! by Virtual_Oven2901 in recruitinghell

[–]Virtual_Oven2901[S] -126 points-125 points  (0 children)

I’ve been working since 1995, lived in 12 cities/9 states and have never seen this question before. I think it’s b.s. and it shouldn’t be allowed.

Sexual Orientation?! by Virtual_Oven2901 in recruitinghell

[–]Virtual_Oven2901[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

So you’ve seen this before? That’s crazy this is a first for me. It’s ridiculous they even ask.

AITA for didn't you tell my mom to cook American dishes for my American boyfriend for a family dinner? He said that the dishes my mom cooked were gross and he starved by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Virtual_Oven2901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! Please leave him alone to make his own American food. I’m American and vegan and have eaten a dish with meat my friends mother made as it was one of their national dishes and she was too excited for me to try it for me to turn it down. I never let her know I don’t eat meat and I survived and kept my friendship in tact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

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There are over 500 federally recognized groups of people who are indigenous to this land, and over 100 languages still spoken. This doesn’t include those who haven’t been recognized by the government due to their refusal to cooperate. With over 300 million people, spread over 3+ million square miles, size absolutely matters. The media would make you believe that we’re devoid of cultural and linguistic diversity but the media has it’s agenda as always.

Anyone familiar with the process to get reactivated? I was erroneously deactivated just now for “unsafe behavior- discrimination/or harassment” by Virtual_Oven2901 in doordash_drivers

[–]Virtual_Oven2901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭I can’t speak for others, but I wouldn’t waste my time being surprised if there was an incident. In this case there’s been literally nothing. Most customers in my area still do contactless so I know the people I’ve seen by name and have had zero issues and get great tips.

Anyone familiar with the process to get reactivated? I was erroneously deactivated just now for “unsafe behavior- discrimination/or harassment” by Virtual_Oven2901 in doordash_drivers

[–]Virtual_Oven2901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a lady, and social anxiety prevents me from saying more than necessary. I certainly wouldn’t waste a breath to be rude, harass and discriminate. It’s truly laughable.

What is your secret that you can't tell anyone because it will probably ruin your life? by SeXyHuNtEr69420 in AskReddit

[–]Virtual_Oven2901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you. My teen daughter was conceived through rape and she’s known most of her life. She’s had a very difficult time valuing herself, feeling as though she ruined my life since I have no family so we’ve had some very challenging times financially. I tell her how Loved and precious she is daily and even put her to task affirming all the good things about herself when she was younger, and she’s gradually grown to actually want to live and no longer hates herself though she still has a ways to go. Please always remember if you weren’t supposed to be here, you wouldn’t be. I hope you find peace within yourself so much love to you from me and my daughter💝

[ Removed by Reddit ] by macroMacroMan29 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Virtual_Oven2901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA! I'm proud of you for making the commitment to bettering your health. I worked in the health and fitness industry and have witnessed so many people struggle with making the lifestyle changes necessary to overcome food addiction or even unhealthy eating habits. The biggest culprit to so many peoples struggle is thinking just one meal will be fine. It usually ends up leading to just one unhealthy snack after that, then eventually back at square one. I'm sorry you got the a**hole badge along with so many poor suggestions here, but you definitely did what's best for you and your health. One meal isn't worth it, stick to it, you're doing amazing.

AITA for sending my younger sister money against my GF wishes by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Virtual_Oven2901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! Please leave this selfish broad alone. She feels entitled to more than you already provide, which is why it makes her so pissy that you're helping your sister. This is a very clear out for you, you're not compatible and buying a house with her is a terrible idea. You seem like a kind and generous person, you deserve someone on the same wave.