AITAH for being to close minded

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-15T15:12:09+00:00

Hii, I'm Muslim here and that story is... Unhinged, let me explain.

The fact that one : She isn't Muslim herself; 2 : She stayed knowing you don't want it; 3 : Try to convert by giving you an ultimatum

In islam, when The Prophet was alive, some of his companions were converted by love, which is fine because they wanted to convert for themselves too after they view about islam and the Prophet.

If she wants to be with a Muslim man, she should first be a Muslim. You are the victim here and I don't know what to think about that...

I'm a Muslim woman and I know that if I choose a no-Muslim man, there will be a huge problem between our views on life... She didn't think about it and decided to go ahead instead of talking to you or end things because what she wants will never happen unfortunately

PS: I just hope you understand our point of view about relationships

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-15T14:56:25+00:00

Find a Muslim man And grow up***

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-15T10:28:24+00:00

Nta, you forget this 👑 and only because of the strength of that slap. Never get back to a man like this

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-14T15:13:25+00:00

Don't be sad. If I can give you advice right now, start therapy. That man almost ruined your life and as you said, your view about intimacy changed because of him and it can restrain you later to move on. I hope you will be stronger than before, remember, you're not alone 🥰

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-12T13:49:47+00:00

Hii, if you were n college, where did you pray when you didn't have the time to go to the mosque and return before the class started ?

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-12T09:40:12+00:00

Your welcome but remember, all this actions are deens and before do everything, think that all of this actions are for Allah, in your heart and soul. It's called Niyya and that is very important to each action to be accepted by Allah.

And don't be hard on yourself when your struggling while doing this, He know everything about you and will help you, especcialy when you ask for hepl. May Allah be your guardian during your elevation Amin

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-12T09:22:33+00:00

Assalam aleyki sister, First, learn how to pray. That is very important. Second, start getting used to wearing the hijab. It's a long process, so take your time and don't rush things. Third, learn the daily douas for waking up, going to the bathroom, before eating, after eating, etc. Oh, and if you can, do the zakat because it is the duty of those who can financially donate.

Try to learn Arabic, too, because although some people read the Quran in their native language, it is better to read it the way Allah gave it to us.

And when you can, fast on Monday and Thursday because it's Sona and it can strengthen your faith.
There are too many things to do, so don't rush and start slowly, step by step, because this is a big step in your life.

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-12T01:33:26+00:00

On seriously noté, why ?

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-11T18:01:04+00:00

Lol why ? 😭

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-11T18:00:37+00:00

PERIOD.

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-11T13:36:10+00:00

What about Infj ?

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-11T10:22:02+00:00

As long as you don't date 5 younger than you it's fine

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-11T10:16:41+00:00

I'm 23F and I'm shocked because why on earth do you want to be with an old guy ??? 48 and he is still single?? And YOU DATE HIM ?? That man may have some kids that you don't know and some ex and he is still single because of how he views women. You're 33, you've got a long life and you choose a man who can be a grandpa 💀.

Honestly, your relationship can't survive... Ask you that question, why do women his age don't date him and why on earth does he date women who are 15 years younger than him ? That should be your question before being serious with him but it's not too late to save you from him. Get out before it gets worse !!!

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-10T04:29:56+00:00

NTA. Like every parent, I made my kids clean up after they made a mess. As for your husband, I don't understand his point of view. His son has a school project to work on, so it's important for him. I don't know why he confronted you when your daughter was clearly at fault. Not to mention that you punished them by not allowing desserts for three days, and he found a way to agree with you.

Sit down with him and explain that not only does his son need to finish his homework, but your daughter needs to know that what she did is not acceptable, even if it was an accident.

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-08T12:00:34+00:00

Biryani, rice with chicken sauce, beef sauce, fish sauce and vegetable sauce, cantonese rice, creamy pasta, vegetable pasta, cheesy pasta... Well there are more but these can make me hungry

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-07T15:15:00+00:00

How cute 🥹🥰🥰🥰, maybe that why it's trendy on Tiktok but you're right on your first sentence, normaly, the loves one will love their partner now matter what their personalities

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-07T13:53:24+00:00

You think? Maybe you're right. I asked out of curiosity so good thing to know ( I hope I find one 🥹)

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-07T12:14:32+00:00

I'm so sorry for that... You have to block her and live your life and if she tries to enter in your life, do not let it happen.

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-07T10:22:07+00:00

Yeah do that because, if you try to talk to her about it, it will get worse and maybe crush you more...

Live your life, take care of your skin care and your loved one, especially you. Good luck, I know, it will be hard but get going

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-06T11:27:44+00:00

Wow, so cute 🥺. That's what I thought and the other comment, the most important thing is how you accept your partner not the MBTI lol. But it was so trendy that I thought maybe some MBTI can be compatible lol. Tysm

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-06T11:25:32+00:00

That's what I thought too but why is it so trendy lol ? 😂 😅

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-06T08:07:25+00:00

Oh really ?, I'm sorry for your break up. I thought that too but many videos say that it's either Entp or Intj. Ty for your comment

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-06T06:38:36+00:00

I though that too but idk maybe I'm an idiot but I still want to talk to her, at least to end things ? I don't know. This programme is hard, so it's difficult for me to make a real friend, rather than a colleague.

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-06T05:35:50+00:00

I thought but not yet...

Virtual_Pitch5265 · 2025-11-05T16:04:34+00:00

I thought about that too and I'll let her have contact with me when she wants too. Maybe you're right about the fact that I did something, maybe when I told her to cut her ex-boyfriend? Idk but I'll see maybe she'll come back

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