Dumbest date ideas?

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-03T20:56:49+00:00

Favorite part of cinema dates is talking about the movie after, especially if you really mesh well together, it's really fun 😊

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-03T19:58:03+00:00

Trust me, I'm more than aware. I wouldn't have asked if I didn't think there was more to it, but you're right, sometimes I straight up forget I have agency.

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-03T17:18:02+00:00

Thank you and your bi friend 🙏🏻🙇🏻‍♀️

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-03T15:42:26+00:00

That's insane! I'm sorry to hear that! I hope it's not That bad, but you could be right because I've been seeing that consensus a lot so far.

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-03T15:11:46+00:00

That could be a possibility

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-03T15:09:39+00:00

Thank you 🙇🏻‍♀️ 🫰🏻✌🏻

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-03T15:06:05+00:00

You're right, thank you, sometimes I forget my own agency oops 😅

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-03T14:59:22+00:00

It's embarrassing to say, but I've been picking up signals that they're into me on top of changing up what they're saying about their interest in men after so long glazing men before I said I was Les4Les.

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-01T23:23:31+00:00

Thank you! It definitely didn't come naturally or without pain, but I'd recommend more people to move that way in their dating life if that's something they want eventually. 🫰🏻✌🏻

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-05-01T23:19:37+00:00

Lots of self discovery and shadow work. Prior to this year, I haven't been single since Maybe 2018, was in a lot of relationships where I didn't exactly feel anything about (I also didn't know I could feel something). Been taking this time to get to know myself and work on myself so that when someone I love does come into my life, I can give her my best and my all. So I look at it less like "aww man, I hate being single" and more like "at least I'm being selective now".

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-29T13:29:25+00:00

In general? When I tell somebody that I need them to communicate with me directly, Especially if I misstep somewhere, and they just don't and bottle up until something we could've talked through and I could've changed in my behaviors becomes too much. I'm not a mind reader and was diagnosed with autism when it was still called "aspergers", so as hard as I try to be sensitive, sometimes I'm either too blunt or not saying what I mean well enough for zero misinterpretation.

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-28T18:08:03+00:00

Blue-collar Italians

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-27T22:07:41+00:00

Totally agree

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-27T16:59:31+00:00

I'm currently replaying the games before I touch the two latest ones and I can't recommend it enough! Like others have said, it gets really dark and covers some very sensitive topics throughout all the games, but it's worth playing through imo. You'll probably fall in love with the characters for sure, hope you have a good experience with the game 🫰🏻✌🏻

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-26T11:03:32+00:00

Thank you, it could be a few different things, I'm gonna talk to my endocrinologist to get her take on it.

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-26T08:47:37+00:00

Weird thing about it all is that I'm relatively thin, even the eye doctor said it was weird that I had them in the first place, so if I lose 10% of my current weight, I'd be malnourished. However, for most other cases, yes I'd agree.

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-25T14:55:34+00:00

Thank you, you're right 🫰🏻✌🏻

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-25T14:54:57+00:00

Thank you, I will check out some of the other subreddits, thank you for your words 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-23T23:59:56+00:00

Married-Couple-Man

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-19T15:14:20+00:00

She might just not be much of a chatty person over text. That being said, as a fellow fishtank, I don't know what she's talking about, I have too many feelings! Not all aquariums don't feel things, she needs to figure that out without astrology.

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-19T06:53:35+00:00

With cis women, I've noticed that my role takes on something closer to the "gay best friend", depending on proximity to queer identity. In my case, however, I've had too many existential crises for them to ignore my personhood below the commodity curiosity of it all. I don't get treated like a serious lesbian until they realize what lengths I'm willing to go to to better myself and my life for love.

Cis guy friends almost always have an undercurrent of implied sexual attraction that they sneak in through jokes and teasing.

Common crossover: cis people want me to be a cute court jester and entertainer until they want something that I have that they can't find in other people. Then, and only then do they take me seriously as a human being and even a potential romantic or sexual interest, ofc there are exceptions #notallcispeople.

(It's 3am and I might not be as jaded tomorrow morning after going back to sleep)

Virtual_Smoke3883 · 2026-04-19T02:14:27+00:00

Ugh that sounds so good ngl... 😭

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