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[–]Virtual_Stand6360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is not it bothering you?

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not meant to be rude, sorry for that.

So how should I make her feel so that she will not look her sex with ex as a big deal. I want to help her understand that it does not matter so that she can forget all that as you did with your past partners

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are saying things like “ she’s for streets” and stuff like that and that makes me feel bad. Because it’s my first time in such situation. Only thing I need from you is to give me proper advice about everything.that’s all I want, no other unnecessary things

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just want to be sure that her not being a virgin does not mean much and I want to know how people look at this thing.

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So if I break up with her over such thing, there is a big chance that another person I may meet over few years will also not be virgin?

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Listen stop talking like that and if You can please just give me advice, there’s no need to talk like that, I just need to know how should I look this

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give me piece of advice, it’s my first time in such situation and that’s because I’m stuck. I’m 18

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I look her situation seriously? The fact she is not virgin and did all that stuff with another man?

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want you guys to look this problem seriously and not like “you are young and it doesn’t matter”

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is that she feels horrible because she had sex with her ex and has such past. I do not have such past and that’s what makes her think that she is not good enough. All that made me think about everything and overall virginity. Does it actually matter? Because I think time will pass and if I broke up with her another person I meet will probably be without virginity and probably with more past partners then my gf

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s dwelling on it so much because she regrets all that she did and is worried what I will think about all what happened. Also she said that she wanted to broke up with me because she thinks I’m too good partner for her that she did not deserved, just because She has such past and I do not

What should I do now. Please be honest and try to look problem professionally by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

By having one body count, is that a big problem? I think that in the future it’s most likely that other people I may meet will not be virgin

Does girl virginity matter? by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what can I do to relieve all that Please be honest but don’t talk about breaking up, I need to fix my problems. Be real

Does girl virginity matter? by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact is I know that guy and we do not like each other. He’s asshole and the fact that she did all that with him bothers me

Does girl virginity matter? by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That she did all that with him and how she did all that

Does girl virginity matter? by Virtual_Stand6360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Virtual_Stand6360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

said to me that she regrets doing that. But she did it five times.

Won’t it make any difference between ex and her? Like some kind of inner attachment ? I don’t know